Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Today is proving to be extremely stressful as I unfortunately still have to deal with my ex at work. I have not let her go because I need her at work as much as she needs the job to feed her and her beautiful little son.
I feel so horribly betrayed by her and my ex friend that I can't even look at her. She was so mean to me last week and told me that I ruined her life and she was sorry she ever met me. I can honestly say I have never been anything but good to her and I think she is lashing out.... maybe because she feels guily for some of whats going on. I have this incredible desire to lash out and say something mean to her but I know that will only make things worse. I am fighting the desire to confront my ex friend and tell him exactly what I think of him... but again... It would only make my issues worse. I am under incredible pressure at my office and this only adds to my stress....
I gues what I am asking for is some support my my friends to know I am not wrong... That its ok to feel this way towards her. I can't believe that I almost hate her! I never have felt this way towards her. She acts like nothing is wrong and when I look at her I actually feel sick. I think of my friend and her being together.
Let me know how to deal with my anger without blowing up. I hate feeling like this! I have said this before but the emptyness is unreal!
Jim :(
I feel so horribly betrayed by her and my ex friend that I can't even look at her. She was so mean to me last week and told me that I ruined her life and she was sorry she ever met me. I can honestly say I have never been anything but good to her and I think she is lashing out.... maybe because she feels guily for some of whats going on. I have this incredible desire to lash out and say something mean to her but I know that will only make things worse. I am fighting the desire to confront my ex friend and tell him exactly what I think of him... but again... It would only make my issues worse. I am under incredible pressure at my office and this only adds to my stress....
I gues what I am asking for is some support my my friends to know I am not wrong... That its ok to feel this way towards her. I can't believe that I almost hate her! I never have felt this way towards her. She acts like nothing is wrong and when I look at her I actually feel sick. I think of my friend and her being together.
Let me know how to deal with my anger without blowing up. I hate feeling like this! I have said this before but the emptyness is unreal!
Jim :(
Jim
How much responsibility does she have in your business? If you NEED her, then probably far too much. I had one recently where the guy trusted his ex implicitly, even though she cheated on him... the laywer told him to fire the wench buthe was "being the nice guy"... right up to the point where she locked him out of HIS OWN business accounts. It took a month to get it sorted out. Cover your backside now.