It's best not too. I can't recall what happen but breakups are so hard. You feel so broken and I imagine it's hard if they act like they don t care. It's hard to imagine how or why after so many years is that possible. Sending thoughts and prayers for your pain.

I completely understand what you are feeling right now and I hate when people say " don't worry this will pass, be strong, you can do this. One day you will see that it was worth it" yeah it all sounds great but what about now ?? What about that pain inside your chest every time i thing that this relationship it's over. What about that how to handle that? Or the fact that he doesn't call or text and here you are thinking of the multiple excuses to text him so you can know that he is ok.... that I know ...... I don't know how to help you and I'm sorry. it's almos a yr for me and I still don't sleep and I miss him soooo much that it hurts... but we are here to help each other out until you can feel normal and happy again

Whenever I text her all I got was don't say that, I don't want to hear that. So I blocked Facebook and her phone. I don't say anything. This time it's been 7 days. There's so much I want to say. But it's a waste if time. If it's meant to be they will come back. If not then it's to move on. I feel your pain. It's been killing me for 3.5 months!!!

Just hang in there it is tough. There is the want but the want has to be both ways. Each day you go without communication the stronger you will get. But it takes time and it will not happen overnight. Just take it a day at a time. We all have to show we can make it and will be better for it.

It is imperative that you keep yourself busy... idle time , idle mind. And an idle mind will keep you stuck in your pain and sorrow. Have you gone back to work? Yes-the emotional pain is excruciating, but it won't be forever. Just like physical pain, you need to treat the symptoms to speed up the recovery. The interesting thing about emotional pain is that the majority of us do not use the remedies readily available to deal with it, such as working, exercising, joining a support group, taking dance lessons, basically keep moving and keep busy. That is the best emotional painkiller available!

don't worry dear. it will take some time to forget it. with the passage of every day his memories will also be fade away. so keep some patience and try to make yourself involve in some other activities. free mind will always remind you about your past. so try to make yourself busy.