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For the last two days I have been fighting with a Blah feeling. It is a feeling of a lack of motivation and an overall feeling of what am I doing. I thought that it was because Saturday night I couldn't find any friends to hang with and Sunday I was just doing my own thing and really didn't have anyone around to hang out with either. I guess it is a feeling of loneliness in a way, or more of a social separation. I just don't find many people that I have something in common with and most of the people that I have stuff in common with have families and wives and here I am, all by myself.
I have gotten to the point where I am not desperate to be in a relationship. It would be nice if it eventually happened and I will admit that I do have a crush on someone (most of you guys know the back story on that) but it isn't like it is something I can't live without.
I guess that most of us that have been married for a descent amount of time go through this social separation when the marriage falls apart. You get so use to that life and the social aspects of that life that it probably takes a long time to recover from it when it is no more. I think that it may take even longer when you are in a more rural setting, like me, and you aren't the most social person anyways. When I am out in a crowd I tend to desire to be with a small group within the crowd of people that I know.
I feel like I am no longer accepted by people from my old social network because now I am single, yet I haven't been accepted by the people that I know that are single because I am new to this, relatively speaking.
Anyone else feeling like this or going through the same thing?
I have gotten to the point where I am not desperate to be in a relationship. It would be nice if it eventually happened and I will admit that I do have a crush on someone (most of you guys know the back story on that) but it isn't like it is something I can't live without.
I guess that most of us that have been married for a descent amount of time go through this social separation when the marriage falls apart. You get so use to that life and the social aspects of that life that it probably takes a long time to recover from it when it is no more. I think that it may take even longer when you are in a more rural setting, like me, and you aren't the most social person anyways. When I am out in a crowd I tend to desire to be with a small group within the crowd of people that I know.
I feel like I am no longer accepted by people from my old social network because now I am single, yet I haven't been accepted by the people that I know that are single because I am new to this, relatively speaking.
Anyone else feeling like this or going through the same thing?
WTF.
Paint something! Seriously - get into your house and boat - change it up, move furniture, clean behind things (yuck), change colors, PAINT those blahs OUT! You gotta do something for YOU - seriously.
I bought self assembly furniture when the blahs hit and BUILT IT MYSELF. No kidding - got my tools out and built an audio tower, a bar top table, chairs. I redecorated, moved things around.
Then I called friends over, cooked them dinner, and showed off my lovely new living room.
Do something for YOU! And bye bye BLAHS