Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Can someone please tell me how I hide the pain when I tell my sons (6 and 2) that Mommy and Daddy can't live together and we will have to leave our home and live in a cramped apartment? Can someone please tell me how I can look in his face and not take a nervous breakdown and cry as he cried saying he doesn't want to go...this is my home, my bedroom, my toys...if you are wondering I had this discussion last week with him and he was a mess. Can someone please tell me why I have to hurt him/them so bad when I am not at fault? How do I explain..where do I begin...how do I ever keep them from know that daddy was out f**king someone else and I forgave him only to find out it never stopped and continues to this day. This is why I have to leave even though we live separated...it's too hard for me to bear.
Let them know that they can ask you Anything, and that you'll always tell the Truth. But don't burden them with more than they want to hear.
Trust your gut. You're their mother and know best how to talk to them about it.
Hugs.