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I've been sitting here trying to motivate myself to get up, get ready and do something, but I just can't find the energy. Ever have this problem? It's like I don't really want to do anything other than sit inside and sit...
How do you motivate yourself when you feel this way?
How do you motivate yourself when you feel this way?
deleted_user
umm i am having that problem RIGHT NOW....i woke up at 12:30 and its not 1:15 and im still sitting here instead of getting up and going to take a shower and get ready...have lots to do today.
veeachjay
I've been like that most of my adult life...if I don't HAVE to do something, it probably doesn't get done. If you find out the secret, let me know. Meanwhile, I'll just sit here....
deleted_user
I'm in that boat too. Its Gorgeous here in Maryland and I'm home getting over a virus.
deleted_user
I have to have something to be motivated about-not cleaning, doing laundry, grocery shopping. If it involves fun and excitement, I am ready.
deleted_user
it takes time baby....I'm still trying to find that passion to take life by storm like I used to. Baby steps...pun intended.
deleted_user
Let me know when you find the secret...I am the worst procrastinator...
Rman
After writing this post, I got my ass up, took a shower, shaved, got dressed and walked my ass out the door. Then I got gas, got some groceries and got a sub from Subway. It wasn't so bad...the sub...
deleted_user
That is the retreat pattern. If you stay inside and dont go anywhere or speak to anyone than you do not have to face anything. Have courage to do it. It doesn't matter if you want or need to do something just do it!!!!!! If only for a couple minutes get out of the house! You are not dead and not going to go through life just existing. Live a little and pretty soon you will start to have fun!
deleted_user
maybe you'd feel more like doing stuff if you didn't smoke 24/7 mate
Rman
Blimey...the English chap is pulling a funny. You silly ole' bloke, how the hell are you doing today? Care to induldge in a pint of lager mate?
deleted_user
What is wrong with just sitting and being and thinking? Nothing, it's healthy.
deleted_user
hi ankle biter...nothing is wrong with that but, if that is all you do = problem...duh
deleted_user
nice one mate, i'd luv a lager, cor blimey
deleted_user
yorkshire pudding?
deleted_user
good afternoon Z
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