Regret it later??? There's no answer to that right now. If you are having doubts about ending things, see if he is willing to work on it with you. It's possible that you two aren't a good fit or it's possible that with some help, things can improve. Just don't hold on for the sake of holding on...

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Sometimes it is hard to leave someone even when you make a good decision about it. Just keep your head up and thinking about things. If he is willing to work on the things that you do not like there might be a chance if not then this was probably for the best. Hang in there

Your profile is private so I have no idea how old you are or if this is first relationship, etc. but here goes:

If it's not been working for some time, you have to ask yourself what your are getting out of the relationship as it currently stands. Don't look at it through rose-colored glasses--look at it with an objective eye.

From my viewpoint, I see someone who is unhappy, arguing with her partner all the time, and not getting the emotional support she needs. From my view, what is keeping this together? Is this what you truly want in your life?

People should add to your life. Ask yourself if this person adds anything to your life? In addition, I will close with something I heard on Dr. Phil: if the relationship is costing YOU more, it's not worth it.

Hugs! I'm sorry you're hurting.

It may seem hard rightnow, but it does get better. If you know that he's not for you, then let him go. Sometimes I wish that I would have let my stbx go before we were married 17 years ago. Better to find out now rather than many years later. At least I have a beautiful 6 y.o. daughter, so I can't say that the entire marriage was a waste.

Am thinking of having a 6months separation then if we still feel the same then we know its not going 2 work. we got on really well till we moved in2 a new house it just went down hill. dont u just wish everyone else could make your desicens 4 u then it would be so much better. Anyone tried this ? Did it work

hi thanks 4 ya replys 2 my post. Am 38 and was with my kids dad 4 14 years so i had it all before the heart ache, upsets but i just dont know when 2 give in, if he begs me 2 give it another go i just cant say no even if we been there twice before Am i weak or just silly

Hi, What exactly would you be regreting later? the lack of arguements in your life? the huge amount of affection that is shown to you? It's easy to panic initially on making a decision to end a relationship but you've not indicated anything positive in the relationship.
Try to turn this around and think what you are opening your life up to, happiness, calm and peace, the possibility of a new romance in life with someone who cherishes you, supports you emotionally.

It's so easy in those early panicked days to romantacise your relationship and think of all the could have been's, it shows you have hope but if he's not willing to work on things do what's best for your future.

Your tears will stop and you will realise how unhappy you have been and the good that's waiting for you.
Good luck to you and take care. Life will get good. :-)