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HeaveToo 07/26/2008

Last week when the ex called she told me that a pipe in the cellar broke and the celler flooded. The hot water heater was underwater. She is going to have to pay a plumber to fix the pipe and put in a new hotwater heater.

None of these things wouldn't have happened if I was there.

This is great. She is having so many problems now that I am not there. I have to say that she deserves it all for treating me badly and leaving me!

deleted_user 07/26/2008

Well the pipe still might have broken..and if you weren't home..the basement would have flooded also.

HeaveToo 07/26/2008

Yeah...but I was home when she wasn't because I work night shift. I would have heard the water pump running and caught it quick

HeaveToo 07/26/2008

Oh yeah....an her car was having some serious issues. It is definately Karma kicking her butt for acting bad towards me and leaving me!

deleted_user 07/26/2008

Heave- I think it is kind of ironic that she is having severe water issues when, the water, your boat, etc is your happy place. Karma is a bitch, sometimes. Three days after we finally closed on the sale of my and STBX's house, he moved into an apartment. It (new apt) totally flooded, when the levees broke in Cedar Rapids, last month. No not funny(comically speaking), sort of, just ironic. What goes around comes around. It is about time for alot of us!

hurtinandhealin2560 07/26/2008

Looks like she's finding out what the single life is all about. She better get repair people on her speed dial.

Bet she was hoping you'd feel sorry for her and come and fix it. Glad you didn't. And yes, she deserves it just like all of our stbx's deserve the karma they get.

Peace and hugs.

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