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not sure how to post this, I am at a loss in explaining it to myself.
After the split, the drudgery of court, divorce, explaining over and over what went wrong, countless hours of insomnia, self analyzing yourself as to what actually went wrong. The aimless wandering and wondering if things will get better, heck, just having anxiety if the sun will ever shine on your face again. Then one day, lyrics float back into your brain *my brain is pea size according to X*, You think back to an old flame that burnt out years ago, what went wrong, etc etc.
In 1978, My 1st true love & Boz Scaggs helped dump me with this little number.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_pTZ_6GQlw "It's Over"
In 2007, My X enlisted the help of the ALL American Rejects to get the message across
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_pTZ_6GQlw "It ends tonight"
Both times, the songs were played for me around my Bday, coincidence, Karma, or am I just really reaching for answers better not questioned?
After the split, the drudgery of court, divorce, explaining over and over what went wrong, countless hours of insomnia, self analyzing yourself as to what actually went wrong. The aimless wandering and wondering if things will get better, heck, just having anxiety if the sun will ever shine on your face again. Then one day, lyrics float back into your brain *my brain is pea size according to X*, You think back to an old flame that burnt out years ago, what went wrong, etc etc.
In 1978, My 1st true love & Boz Scaggs helped dump me with this little number.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_pTZ_6GQlw "It's Over"
In 2007, My X enlisted the help of the ALL American Rejects to get the message across
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_pTZ_6GQlw "It ends tonight"
Both times, the songs were played for me around my Bday, coincidence, Karma, or am I just really reaching for answers better not questioned?
I'm not sure what to make out of it.
I had a few synchronicitous (is that a word) things happen to me that I chose to read into, but really I think it's just magical thinking
what do YOU make out of it?
Negative Norm might view it as a really bright red flag if another relationship ever does come to fruition.
as with all things great and small
where women and men share common ground
neither knowing what makes them fall
is it love? or just their worlds colliding and spinning around