I started a relationship with someone who had been pursuing me in facebook for about 10 months until I got to know her better and really like her. Since then we have had three months of pure magic, we called each other three or four times a day (we live two hours apart). It was wonderful. But after her last visit two weeks ago things started to change. Her 18 year old son is very problematic and drives her mom crazy. They have been fighting for the last two weeks. So she started distancing from me, being in a bad mood and generally feeling overwhelmed by life. She has other problems that contribute to this with her two former abusive partner, one being the father of the son who is not paying her alimony. She is taking one to court and the other she is trying to settle with a lawyer. Like I said she says she feels overwhelmed with life. The point of all this is that it has taken a toll in our wonderful relationship. We get along so well, have so much in common, she says she feels so secure and peaceful in my arms in bed, she loves the flowers I send her. It has been wonderful. But I now feel the magic is gone. She is not answering the phone as she used to. Last Thursday she completely blew me off for our lunch talk and on Saturday she did not answer the phone or texted or anything until the next morning when she sent me something on fb but still did not call until 6 pm. Now for our 9 pm usual conversation she says she will be busy. I feel she is moving away. What should I do? Back away completely and let her call me when she wants? Wait and see if her episode with her son passes and she is happy again with me. I don't feel that will happen, but I am a pessimist. I do feel the magic has been disappearing since her son started being very difficult two weeks ago. She says he goes through these periods every four months. I also have to ask myself if I really want to be in a relationship in which the son will be constantly interrupting its magic and joy. Help please.