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Help me please! Totally lost!

Freaked_out_florida_1976
Freaked_out_florida_1976

hi I'm new here. My name is Anna. My ex-boyfriend just threw me out 3 days ago. Ive been living with him for 2 years. The entire time he has been cheating.



There is no saving this! It is over. We do not need counseling. He could care less what happens to me. He told me so.



I had to find emergency housing. I am mentally and physically ill. I was staying with him because I have absolutely no family or friends anywhere. I also cannot drive. I have enough money to maybe stay in the housing for a month.


Please just dont tell me to move on. I am lonely and scared and need someone to talk to now. Some support, not advice please!


Thank you.


Anna Patterson 

Diane22
Diane22
id never tell u to just move on. It doesn't work that way. i know how this feels. i too have been through a very traumatic break up after 6 years. where were u staying before him? If u lived with him two years he cant just throw u out. In my state you have rights.
Freaked_out_florida_1976
Freaked_out_florida_1976
Hi diane22 I hope you get this reply cause new here! Thank you for answering! Sadly, this was a 16 year relationship. Actually most of my adult life. We weren't married so I guess he can throw me out. Its an rv- lol and he owns it.! Ive been living there in the rv with him for 6 years and before that I lived in his house in California for 12 years!
MemphisWH
MemphisWH
I hope things work out for you,
it will be rough, painful and stressful, but be patient.
Start a journal you need to heal and this takes time as well.
You are being smart by reaching out so keep that going on.
Remember that your EXes value of you does not matter,
Love yourself, focus on yourself, be kind to yourself in this season of pain.
OlderCPer
OlderCPer
Did you get mail at the address wherever y'all park your RV? Or did you get your mail at a shared Post Box? He can't just throw you out because your name is not on the Title of the RV. The city/county you live in should have a Social Services department. Call them, find out if they have a lawyer on staff or anyone who can guide you through the legalities of this situation. They can also help you find more permanent housing, get you on food stamps and stuff like that.
KimmyO
KimmyO
I'm so very sorry Anna! He is a creep for doing that to you, both the cheating and throwing you out, you deserve better!! You are worth being loved, treated right and treasured. Don't let yourself be treated any way you would not let someone else you love, love yourself well and don't put up with that bad treatment, you are a treasure! Hang in there, things will improve and you will be with someone who loves you, truly, not just himself. <3
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