Hey Jim, you are not alone. My thoughts are with you tonight.

Why does it hurt so bad? Probably because you're a deep, genuine caring person. If it didn't hurt so bad I'd be worried.

You are not alone at all, Jim. Weekends can be so difficult and empty.

Sending hugs along...

of course you are NOT alone, J. I am here for you and i am sure others are too....do not let her get to you....ignore her,,, the best revenge is your indifference and your happiness....i know you dont feel happy now, but try to relax and have a good weekend, do something you like, movies, something you enjoy...on Monday, be calm, relaxed, indifferent...laugh and do not talk to her....she will be blown away

You're not alone... and like JASG said, you hurt so much because you care.

You are not alone. I can't stop crying.
I hope things get better soon for you.
(((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Hugs!

You are not alone. I understand the feeling alone on the weekends....pretty much how I spend all of mine...

I try to do things for myself and my dog is good company too. You are lucky that you have children. Do try to get out and socialize, even if it is just to sit in the local coffee shop with the newspaper or a good book, I find just being around people helps.

I live near DC and we have great museums that are free, I take the metro in and browse, something I can do alone, but there are always people around!

Hugs.

No you are not alone... I have been having a bad week.. I don't even want to be around myself...

jim, i know exactly how you feel, i go though it way to often and i am having a hard time letting go. i don't have the answer to make the pain go away, if i did i would over my wife. but know this, you are not alone in this feeling and we will get through this.

You are not alone at all. We are all here going through or have gone through it. It hasb een over a year for me and feeling better. It takes time but stay busy. Take a class or meet with friends, join a gym or anything to keep your mind occupied. Time does heal.HUGS

We are all struggling with loss, and together we can support and comfort each other. Easy solutions are not available, so we have to keep looking to the future and go out - sitting home is not the answer when you are feeling low. Last week I forced myself to be cheerful and interested in others and it really made a difference in my down time. I came home uplifted.

You have two marvelous children. Plans special days with them.

Wishing you a peaceful and happy weekend.

Dear Jim. Betrayal is bad enough, the pain of a double betrayal must be bewildering. Take the high road. Get in touch with the grit in your integrity. You are alive and the possibilities are endless. Grab your courage with both hands and hang on tight. Do something just for you this weekend. You are among friends here. (((hugs)))

For sure you are not alone. Only nice guys get hurt and the ones who don't care about others don't even feel a thing. As they say nice guys like yoy are made for the long run. Hang in there buddy!!!

I can't imagine having to work with my ex! I think that's one of the reasons you are hurting so bad. You can't do the NC rule. If there is any possible way, she needs to go. You need time to heal, and that scab is getting ripped off everytime you see her. Try and find something fun to do this weekend. Since my ex left, I have joined a gym and I seek out things to occupy me, things that are fun! You only live once, and I have decided he was not worth it, and now the second half of my life is going to be about me. Take care Jim. You seem like a great guy, and you deserve the best.

I can't imagine having to work with my ex! I think that's one of the reasons you are hurting so bad. You can't do the NC rule. If there is any possible way, she needs to go. You need time to heal, and that scab is getting ripped off everytime you see her. Try and find something fun to do this weekend. Since my ex left, I have joined a gym and I seek out things to occupy me, things that are fun! You only live once, and I have decided he was not worth it, and now the second half of my life is going to be about me. Take care Jim. You seem like a great guy, and you deserve the best.

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