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Rainydays7 08/16/2020

Hello.

I found out my husband was texting a woman on July 8. He promised to not see her or text her anymore...that was a lie.

We had a nice daytrip on July 19. We stopped at his aunt's house to visit and he let it slip that he was getting out around 12:30 or 1:00 pm because hours were cut. He wasn't getting home until 4 or 5 pm.

I moved in with some friends on July 29. It's been a Rollercoaster.

Warm Regards,

Rainydays7

Rainydays7 08/20/2020

Thank you for the kindness.. I was doing well when I had a plan, things to do, set up new bank account, get my own phone contract, set up people to help me move, take his name off the credit card, set up my room at Meggan's house and my office, figure out how to help him at the hospital, apply for his FMLA, short term disability,etc...now I said my goodbye to him, I've not seen him in a while, and I worry about how he's doing.

I'm used to putting him first always above myself. I have to stop doing that...and more important, I have to stop WANTING to do that. It's difficult. I love him and hate him.

I will find a way, I always do. It will be difficult, but most things worth doing are difficult. Keep pushing forward.

cbgrace1980 08/24/2020

I am so sorry you are going through this. Don't try to do it alone: we are here for you anytime you need to vent. Let us know how we can help you!

Rainydays7 08/24/2020

Thank you, CBGrace. I appreciate it.

I did sign up for a local in-person divorce support group too, and I have an appt. With a counselor to try and get my head on straight.

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