Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I use to be a member here a long time ago when I went through my first divoce. I was Lostsoul72, but I think that account has been lost. Well I am back as I just went through my second divoce and I am having a very hard time coping and deal with everything that came with this one.
I just wanted to say hi and I will write more in the near future.
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I haven't written in my diary on my computer since May because I thought that my computer was dying. I got away from writing but my computer is hanging in there. I think that I will start writing in it again. It's so therapeutic.
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Years ago, I won a mirrored armoire from my job. It's in my bedroom but I rarely stand in front of it. Yesterday, I had to have a dexascan done so I had to change into a gown. There was a full length mirror in the changing room. I'm aware that I gained 5 to 7 pounds over the last year from cheating on Keto but I didn't know what it looked like. It was a reality check.
Stay strong
People are year to listen and support you
I did read your other post in the bi-polar group. I would suggest you get into some therapy for yourself. A therapist could help sort out why you picked these two women, and why you stayed for so long with each. I am sorry they treated you so badly. Do you think you have co-dependency issues or low self esteem? (Suggested on your post on the bi-polar board). Therapy can help with that.
You deserve to find someone who will respect you and treat you well. We need to work on ourselves first, to best find a good partner in someone else.
You have really been through a lot. I hope you will contact a therapist, I think that will help you feel better faster.
Good luck!
Thank You ALL for your replies!
You're going to be okay! It will hurt for awhile, but you have been through this before if that's any small consolation, and please do ask your therapist to help you with getting through this difficult time. You can do this. You are going to be okay.