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namaste02 10/31/2011

Like a woman scorned...

Perhaps this is true.

Yesterday I was sad...

Today I am PISSED

Ive always had a big problem with anger...a HUGE problem with it, actually.

Im not an angry person. It take SO much for me to get to that point. I LOVE and choose to live peacefully.

But my tolerance today is oh so low.

Trying to find my compassionate side today..and it seems to have been taken away from me.

Truthfully...that scares me a bit.

I feel out of sorts.

namaste02 10/31/2011

I did laugh last night though when one of my best friends has now renamed "him" as

Sergeant DoucheBag.

LOL!!!

no no no and no to any more Army boys....gets me in trouble every time...

deleted_user 10/31/2011

LOL... i love the new name!!

sorry you are sad & angry :{

JustASimpleGuy 10/31/2011

Okay namaste, now repeat after me: goosefraba.

It's a movie quote. Do you know it? :-)

deleted_user 10/31/2011

maybe someday you will hear from him and get an explanation. it sure is a shame that you have not gotten it.

this is a test, namaste. let your anger out because it is valid. without anger, we can't be very compassionate.

i'm sorry.

Misred 10/31/2011

My EX Boss is a retired AF Colonel, he always told me stay away from Army guys, that AF is the gentleman's branch of service. I get asked out by Army more than any other branch of service....and I work on an AF base????? Wonder what that says about me ;P

Hang in there sweetie

bigguy3 10/31/2011

My step-daughter has a thing for "army" men. Her last two boyfriends have been in the army and she is drawn to them for some reason .... I fear she's in for a series of broken hearts.

deleted_user 10/31/2011

I run from men in any kind of uniform now. Uh uh, no way, never again

deleted_user 10/31/2011

And I would think anger is a natural, normal reaction to what he is doing. That's angers job, to alert you to the fact that you are being violated in some fashion and to protect yourself

deleted_user 10/31/2011

You're well on your way, Namaste. Awareness of the issue is 50% of solving it.

deleted_user 10/31/2011

you know what I always say about anger
the emotion of mobility
it's a useful emotion, it's evolved with us, it helps our survival
you're a wise enough person to know how to use it to your advantage
so I don't have any concerns
in fact, I hope you share with us how you end up using it
for any future reference doncha know

((hugs)) (now getting out of your way)

namaste02 10/31/2011

I went running this afternoon.... While doing so, I realized I was running from myself..... Grrr.... I hit mile 3, got sick on the side of the road, and then went home. Charming, I know :(

deleted_user 10/31/2011

His bullshit would make me puke too. I hope you feel better.

JustASimpleGuy 10/31/2011

Emotional stress can definitely play havoc with the enteric nervous system.

Big cyber-hug!

Misred 10/31/2011

yah I agree with JASGuy, the emotional stress..plus you probably cant eat so it makes it worse. (((HUGS)))

deleted_user 10/31/2011

I am reaching the "fury" part too. My mind just wont turn off. I'm angry and I'm acting out. GAAAHHHH!!!!!!

Maybe I should try running too.

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