Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Greatness 01/19/2017

Its been a month since I came home and realize he left. I want to be happy again so bad that I'm forcing myself to get over him but it won't work everything I do reminds me of him and the only thing I want is for him to come home but he completely shut me out. I don't want to know what he's doing I pray everynight for him to be happy but completely forget to pray for my own in return. I need help figuring out how to let go.

Harley 01/19/2017

I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through. I wish I had the perfect thing to say to make this better. All I can do is tell you about my past break-up (pretty recent). And tell you that it does in fact get better. After 3 months, I'm just now able to talk about it, and really start to feel like myself again. It's going to take time. Remember to take care of yourself and try and put yourself first. Find yourself, figure yourself out, and remember there are many people in this world. You will meet someone else. You will be happy again. Message me any time if you would like to talk. Take care. -Harley

Newbeginnings4me 01/20/2017

Im here, message me.
Pray for yourself.
I know how you feel. I came home fr work and my husband was gone. I got a text saying we will talk later. And I will always love you.
Broke my heart.
We will get thru this together. I'm here for you. You are not in this alone.
I want you to be happy.

thiscantbeit 01/20/2017

I'm so sorry that you are in this place. That any of us are in this place is terrible. You are not alone! I know that sometimes it can be difficult because we need something tangible and this is a virtual space, but we are here with you. This heartache that we all carry kind of binds us in compassion. I struggle daily but all I can do is bring it to God in prayer. As impossible as it may be, we have to believe that it will get better. I say this to myself as I say it to you. Words may not bring you the comfort that you need but I'm here! We are here! - Bear Hug!

SunflowerProv. 01/20/2017

Prayers your way.

HopeandMoreHope 01/21/2017

Hi dear girl, I am so so sorry that you are going through this. It will take time, you need to grieve in order to get to the other side of this. You lost someone you love so the pain will be great for a while. But the grieving has a purpose, it allows you to empty yourself so that you can rebuild yourself again. There is a saying that if you love something, and it leaves and does not return, it is not meant to be. God always has a plan for us and it is ALWAYS far better than any plan we have for ourselves. Trust that God is with you through this, He holds you in the palm of His hand. He will provide the comfort and strength you need. You can pray for him as you have done, but pray for yourself. Spend time with family and friends who love and support you. Be good to yourself and spend time with YOU. Take walks, buy yourself flowers, treat yourself to a massage or your favorite cup of coffee. Be gentle with yourself, healing will come. If you belong to a church, spend some time there and reach out to the pastor as well. Hang strong, you will be in my prayers.

daydczzz 01/21/2017

Just keep you head up and move forward.. I'm going through a similar situation and I wish you the best.

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