Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Strong4me2017 05/04/2017

Had to call the ex today about selling our cars which he is totally not in agreement with he wont meet up with me to sign the title so i can sell it so we got in a huge fight and he hung up on me it was the first time I had heard his voice since he left made my heart jump damn it why can he still do that I am so angry with him he called me heartless because he had to choose whether or not he wanted to be married to me I don't understand how he can be so hateful to someone he loves I did nothing to him so frustrating

mirandac 05/04/2017

I am so sorry for all your hurt and pain. My ex was
Unpleasant toward me and could not often speak
in a civil tone. Mostly we went thru the lawyers and
used A notebook in the kitchen that was there for
domestic issues.

This part is really rough, the financial and legal ending
of a Marriage.

All marital cars, house, properties, debts and all assets
were taken into account by the lawyers and were in the
Financial settlement, HUGS

mynewnormal 05/04/2017

My exhusband had an affair, and left me for her. We've been divorced 2 years now - and I still have moments like what you describe, where I hear his voice and the butterflies start going crazy. That's a reaction we can't control unfortunately, but what we can control is what type of behavior we'll accept from our spouse/partner. I limit my contact with my ex very strictly, emails and txt msgs, and ONLY about our kids, because I KNOW my gut reactions to him are hurtful to me. I'm sorry you're going through this - it does get better

Normie 05/04/2017

After reading everyone's posts, I am wondering if my husband has become emotionally abusive. He doesn't like drama and gets mad because I am sensitive and cry easily. I recently started a trending small online business where I have my personal group that i post pictures and videos. He looked right at me and said "who are you?". I have no idea who you are. I never thought you would be a pushy sales person taking selfies and so into yourself. I explained that my group likes to see me wearing the products. After he said that, it really hurt and I went into the bathroom to cry. I started thinking about all of the years and how we are great together and love each other but, he says some messed up things. Mostly, when I get upset and start crying, he says to quit the drama. All I want is a hug from him or for him to say he didn't mean it. But, he usually ends up ignoring me or leaves the room until I fall asleep from crying. We had a few rough patches where I didn't think we would make it but, he tells me he loves me and is committed to us. What the hell does that mean? That he is committed but, unhappy?

Rogers55 05/04/2017

My husband of almost 8 years, together for 12 told me he was unhappy and wanted to separate. This was out of nowhere and he pulled the rug out from under me. We just bought our first house a year ago and we have an almost 3 year old. I am devastated and my heart is broken. It has been almost 2 weeks and I cannot wait until this pain is gone. I have asked him to reconsider and go to marriage counseling with me. He said he is thinking about it. When will this pain go away? I just want to not care and not constantly wonder what he is doing. I hate it.

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