I know a lot of DS members are dealing with the back and forth (they want you, they don't). But I have been divorced for two years and gone for nearly three. My ex and I spoke yesterday morning (our son's birthday), he went on and on about different stuff and then all of a sudden - "You probably know this, I still have feelings for you." (BTW, he is engaged and has another child!) Oh sure, I knew that, while you were torturing me and our child for the last three years and screaming obscenities at me over the phone, I was thinking, "Geez, he loves me sooo much!"

Anyway, I ignored it and moved on to something else, but I'm wondering what in the hell he thought I'd say? "Okay honey, let's break off our engagements to other people and shack up together"??!

I guess I basically needed to get this off my chest, it really weirded me out. My family can't stand to hear about him and I'm obviously not going to share this with my fiance - I'm all for honesty but he doesn't care for him anyway and he's a lot bigger than my ex!
Sorry this got so long, thanks for letting me vent.