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So the past week was a good one for me, I was doing a lot of overtime & then I went to vagas with my girlfriends to celebrate a birthday. He dropped me to the airport & on the way there I told him that I forgive him & that I've accepted what he's done to me & I wished him all the best with his new relationship.
I got on the plane, got to vagas was having a ball until he called to check up on me. He just wanted to say hi & to apologize again. He said that he was sorry & he was thinking with his penis, he understands that I might need time but he really wants to get back together he sees us having a future.
Stupid me fell for his crap but I was still a little suspicious so I reached out to the young lady he is/was cheating on me with only to find out that they've been hanging out alllll weekend.
I can't understand why he's still after me,, why is he still playing games & lying to me. Eventhough I told him I don't want to be with him, I've told him that he's driving me crazy & that I'm seeing a therapist because of all he's put me through. I told him to go be with her & leave me alone. Yet still he's calling him texting me about us being together.
Some may say why don't you just block him at this point in time I can't. We are tied together financially & I'm trying to sort it out so I can't stop all contact with him.
Cant understand why he wont leave me alone...
Tied to that guy. Block his number and social media.
Him and his "new/old GF" will not stop tormenting you
until You put a stop to it yourself. i hope you can see
your Therapist often. He nicely ruined your trip away
with Great purpose and intent.
"Do not talk to him", go no contact, do not Tell him
you forgive him, i forgave my cheating ex but I would
never tell his cheating ass that. I did it for me, i Forgave
myself then him it was the only way to work thru my
Anger and Rage. Forgiveness is about you not him.
HUGS
Usually selfish, self centered, into addictions or
Come from them and/or dysfunction. The only
sane thing for someone to do is to not play and
walk away With your head held high. They generally
do not Improve with age and are often narcissistic
or have The traits. HUGS
Will give you some insights in why he would do this - wants to have his cake and eat it too