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just when i thought all was fine and my life was finally free of him. that he would stay away from me! nope.... i should have seen it coming. this son of a bitch would dare call my mom (i didnt think to block his number from HER phone) and started the harassment....
4 months ago. when he left me he took the flat screen tv, PS3, the nice new printer/scanner, ALMOST took my surround sound, BUT he left me his 2 cats (one of them i can't stand). plus he tried to say i owed him $1,400. my ass........
after about 2 months of peace from this asshole i thought my life would be fine. i should have known it wouldn't be! there was ONE more thing we had co-purchased together and i should have known that if he went as far as he did before with the other shit, he would try again and get his hands on THIS, and it was the KAYAK (still in my possession).
lastnight, this son of a bitch literally threw a temper tantrum about it, threaten to sue me, and when i hung up on him (from my mom's phone) his best friend called me back saying that he was throwing a fit (at her house) and was planning on killing himself AGAIN. not this again.... not this ALL OVER AGAIN..... i'm so sick of the fuckin suicide threats every time he didn't get his way! she (his best friend) told me he already had a plan laid out how he was gonna do it and bla bla blah. seriously?? killing your self over a kayak??? come on man.... this is so stupid.
she said she'll come get the kayak and pay me his portion of it but don't let him know. she was begging me to agree so that he would calm down and not take his life. she also told me he was planning to use it AT MY FAVORITE BEACH. oh hell no..... he doesn't even like that beach! what's he doing there?! if i run into him, i'll call the cops. can anyone say TRO?!
what a fuckin brat. i'm so sick of this guy. he has tore huge holes through me with his mental instability during our last year together. i should have known that he would find SOME way to tear into my life again!
4 months ago. when he left me he took the flat screen tv, PS3, the nice new printer/scanner, ALMOST took my surround sound, BUT he left me his 2 cats (one of them i can't stand). plus he tried to say i owed him $1,400. my ass........
after about 2 months of peace from this asshole i thought my life would be fine. i should have known it wouldn't be! there was ONE more thing we had co-purchased together and i should have known that if he went as far as he did before with the other shit, he would try again and get his hands on THIS, and it was the KAYAK (still in my possession).
lastnight, this son of a bitch literally threw a temper tantrum about it, threaten to sue me, and when i hung up on him (from my mom's phone) his best friend called me back saying that he was throwing a fit (at her house) and was planning on killing himself AGAIN. not this again.... not this ALL OVER AGAIN..... i'm so sick of the fuckin suicide threats every time he didn't get his way! she (his best friend) told me he already had a plan laid out how he was gonna do it and bla bla blah. seriously?? killing your self over a kayak??? come on man.... this is so stupid.
she said she'll come get the kayak and pay me his portion of it but don't let him know. she was begging me to agree so that he would calm down and not take his life. she also told me he was planning to use it AT MY FAVORITE BEACH. oh hell no..... he doesn't even like that beach! what's he doing there?! if i run into him, i'll call the cops. can anyone say TRO?!
what a fuckin brat. i'm so sick of this guy. he has tore huge holes through me with his mental instability during our last year together. i should have known that he would find SOME way to tear into my life again!
YOU are not responsible for what HE chooses to do in life. Threatening suicide to get your attention is heinous in my opinion. If he truly is suicidal...his friends know it and can try to help him get help. Putting this on you.....awful.
I'm sorry this is happening...(((HUGS)))
Tread carefully, that's a bit scary.
he never hit me but he has broken my things (dishes, glasses, a fan) , used to throw things all the time when he got mad. i'm thinking that hes hanging out at my favorite beach on purpose cuz he knows i go there ALL the time. he's hoping to run into me. I DO NOT WANT TO RUN INTO THIS GUY. this is why it may come down to a TRO.
Take the loss and gain your peace of mind....
i don't know why he feels he has to do this to her.... she has enough stress. but of course he has to have that much attention and kick and cream like a 2 yrs old that wants his candy.
i know he hates himself, but this suicidal shit he's been pulling since last year, and the things he says.......... man, it really tore some big holes in me. people don't understand that when they talk all that crazy talk about wanting to die, how much it hurts others around em that love em.
and then when he starts using it to get what he wants (crying wolf) is really fucked up. i'm glad i'm not with this guy anymore. that became one sick unhealthy relationship. holy shit
Lynne