Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm doing good today, taking care of myself, making myself happy, doing fun things with the kids and enjoying life as I can. Sometimes I can't help it and I'm sad and I cry. I want to do new things and take risks. Sometimes I'm good and sometimes I feel so empy and lonely. Sometimes I get this nauseous feeling and I just feel like throwing up!
So today, H invited me to joined him when he goes to see his family on his 2 week break. I told him that I would think about it and I would stay in a hotel and not as his parents house. He said we would talk about it when the date gets closer (not until January). We are still going forward with the separation, we don't say I miss or I love you to each other, we do talk often but it is a friendly conversation about the day and about the kids. I'm so torn, I want to move forward, I want to move on, I want to let go but then that empty hope just gets to me. I want to see him but then I think that it will probably just cause me heartache and I will get a set back after so much hard work to make myself better. I don't want to go back to the beginning, I don't want to cry myself to sleep anymore but then I want to see him. Argggggghhhhh!!!!! Wish decisions were easier, wish I was stronger to just say no and fuc....it! So torn so torn, so confused, know and need what I should do and then my heart pulls in the other direction.
Stupid heart and stupid man and sometimes stupid me!!!!!!
So today, H invited me to joined him when he goes to see his family on his 2 week break. I told him that I would think about it and I would stay in a hotel and not as his parents house. He said we would talk about it when the date gets closer (not until January). We are still going forward with the separation, we don't say I miss or I love you to each other, we do talk often but it is a friendly conversation about the day and about the kids. I'm so torn, I want to move forward, I want to move on, I want to let go but then that empty hope just gets to me. I want to see him but then I think that it will probably just cause me heartache and I will get a set back after so much hard work to make myself better. I don't want to go back to the beginning, I don't want to cry myself to sleep anymore but then I want to see him. Argggggghhhhh!!!!! Wish decisions were easier, wish I was stronger to just say no and fuc....it! So torn so torn, so confused, know and need what I should do and then my heart pulls in the other direction.
Stupid heart and stupid man and sometimes stupid me!!!!!!
2newadvntrs
No you are not stupid, you just still do love each other it is very clear..This relationship does deserve another chance..Have you tried to move your reationship in a spiritual way..I would hope you can get involved in some womens bible studies and grow in the lord, pray for your husband..Talk to him and tell him you are going to pray for him, pray that god restores your marriage..Ask him if he would like to go to church with you on a sunday...Ask him to join you for some family fun times..I will have to come back to this later as I do have to leave now for my womens bible study...I am going to be late..I will keep you in my prayers..But I believe your marriage can be restored , I just feel it from your post, but it needs a little work and it may have to begin with you.
playerapr
2new - this relationship did get another chance -I've tried so hard for the last year and he said he tried but not really - he said he stayed for the kids but he dont want to be married anymore. He said he cares about me but he is not in love with me anymore, he dont have those feelings towards me anymore. Sadly, through this whole ordeal I have grown apart from God, I have lost the faith, still believe in God and still pray but my faith is shaky. Thanks for your well wishes and prayers :)
deleted_user
Thats good you are doing better today. Hugs to you sweetie. You are doing very good. Keep it up. :)
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