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I did have a date tonight with the girl that I had a date with last week. She is a great girl and she is really sweet. We cooked a nice dinner together and then watched a movie.
When I went to leave tonight I asked her for a kiss. She said that she isn't ready. I told her that was fine and she was smart to take this slow. I told her that she was definately worth waiting for!
We have been emailing and talking on the phone for a while, over a month. We have only had two dates in person though and we have future ones planned. I really do like this girl and I like the way she is so I am hoping that things will work out.
I was worried that I may have scared her tonight by asking for a kiss but when I got home she had sent me another email thanking me for the flowers and a wonderful evening. I had to breathe a sigh of relief there.
I am not trying to put pressure on myself and I know that I need to let nature take its course and if it will it will and if it won't it won't, but I can't help but hope for it to be a success.
How will I know when the time is right to ask for a kiss again? How can I tell when she is ready for that?
When I went to leave tonight I asked her for a kiss. She said that she isn't ready. I told her that was fine and she was smart to take this slow. I told her that she was definately worth waiting for!
We have been emailing and talking on the phone for a while, over a month. We have only had two dates in person though and we have future ones planned. I really do like this girl and I like the way she is so I am hoping that things will work out.
I was worried that I may have scared her tonight by asking for a kiss but when I got home she had sent me another email thanking me for the flowers and a wonderful evening. I had to breathe a sigh of relief there.
I am not trying to put pressure on myself and I know that I need to let nature take its course and if it will it will and if it won't it won't, but I can't help but hope for it to be a success.
How will I know when the time is right to ask for a kiss again? How can I tell when she is ready for that?
If my fellow had actually asked we may still not be kissing!
Spontaneity!!!!
I am really glad you had a great time!
If shes worth it, Ive learned that the last thing in my mind is kssing her or having sex. Its losing track of time and days enjoying the other person. Take it slow.
8 Dates Joane, not 8 weeks.
Heck...I would wait for marriage for that one thing. She would be so worth it. She is a great person from what I have seen so far. I just enjoy talking with her and getting emails. She is very cute too.
I wouldnt put so much emphasis on looking for when you can get a kiss from her, when the time is right, you will just know it when you are in that moment. UNtil then, just have fun and be yourself.
Good Luck!