I hired a divorce attorney.  He called me a day later screaming, why did I rob the checking account.  Then I went to pick up my daughter from school but couldn't find her, so I tried calling her from my cell.  It had no service.  I parked and went into the school and they let me call her and I found her and took her home.  I called my phone company, he'd cancelled my phone.  Two days before the SIM card from my new provider arrived.  Now my phone is "locked" and I need an "unlock code" which I could only get by paying $1.47 and they'd email it to me.  So I used my check card.  It was denied.  He took me off the checking account.  I used a credit card.  Now I'm waiting for the email with the unlock code, will take 2 to 3 business days.  

But.  The longer I am away from him, the better I've been sleeping, the more energy I have, and the happier I have been.  I am lucky.  I owned a home before marrying him and my tenants moved out so I moved back in.  A family member sent me money and I got a money order today to pay the mortgage.  There was money left over and I bought small basil, dill, red bell pepper plants and when I planted them it made me incredibly happy and at peace.  I am finding me again.  I am now free to talk to my new neighbors and garden again!  My kitchen and bathroom are always clean without urine all over the toilet and the floor, dirty dishes and socks everywhere.  

Last night after I found out what he'd done I cried out of anger and frustration.  I wanted to punch walls and scream.  Today, it had no power over me.