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Stbx called, and yes, I answered. I thought he wanted to talk to the kids. And after last night, well, never mind.
Here is my dilema...He tells me there is going to be a fight and its going to get ugly. I told him its already ugly.
Anyways...Here is the story: The seperation agreement says this, word for word:
The parties agree that they shall have joint legal custody of the minor children, and that the children's primary physical residence shall be with Wife and contact with Husband shall be according to the following schedule...
The Divorce papers say this word for word:
That this Honorable Court grant the Plaintiff joint legal and sole physical custody of the minor children of the parties.
This is his problem: Because it says PLAINTIFF on the divorce papers, he is seeing only I get JOINT custody of the kids, plus the sole physical. I say it says the EXACT same thing the seperation agreement says!
He threatens me with a fight and blah, blah blah.
Anybody who knows could you pls help me?
Any other input would be great, too.
I am at my wits end here!
I knew I shouldnt have answered the phone.
Oh, THANK YOU ALL:)
Here is my dilema...He tells me there is going to be a fight and its going to get ugly. I told him its already ugly.
Anyways...Here is the story: The seperation agreement says this, word for word:
The parties agree that they shall have joint legal custody of the minor children, and that the children's primary physical residence shall be with Wife and contact with Husband shall be according to the following schedule...
The Divorce papers say this word for word:
That this Honorable Court grant the Plaintiff joint legal and sole physical custody of the minor children of the parties.
This is his problem: Because it says PLAINTIFF on the divorce papers, he is seeing only I get JOINT custody of the kids, plus the sole physical. I say it says the EXACT same thing the seperation agreement says!
He threatens me with a fight and blah, blah blah.
Anybody who knows could you pls help me?
Any other input would be great, too.
I am at my wits end here!
I knew I shouldnt have answered the phone.
Oh, THANK YOU ALL:)
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Thanks for the input, friends.
Don't stress. He just wants to unnerve you.
Plaintiff seeks joint legal and sole physical.
He reads that to say I am seeking JOINING LEGAL AND PHYSICAL to be SOLE!
I know, what an idiot!