Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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So the guy I am in love with just dumped me now, about a month after I lost my virginity to him.. it hurts.. hurts because I really love him, and hurts because I feel like he used me, lured me to get what he wanted, and now just wants to tell me goodbye..
He basically told me we're not together and won't be just cause we had sex, and I should find a boyfriend ... I am miserable.. I never felt this bad in my life, I don't wanna leave my bed anymore..
I absolutely do not regret what happened between us, but it did because I thought it could bring us together.. but I was wrong..
I wonder what is wrong with me that no one loves me and I cannot have a real decent relationship with anyone.. at almost 25 years of age it should be about time!
It sucks even more when the person I am talking about lives in a different country.. and it took me 3 flights to get to him, i travelled alone, spent all my money and this is how it ends...
I seriously just wanna die right now.. put a guy in my head and die..
He basically told me we're not together and won't be just cause we had sex, and I should find a boyfriend ... I am miserable.. I never felt this bad in my life, I don't wanna leave my bed anymore..
I absolutely do not regret what happened between us, but it did because I thought it could bring us together.. but I was wrong..
I wonder what is wrong with me that no one loves me and I cannot have a real decent relationship with anyone.. at almost 25 years of age it should be about time!
It sucks even more when the person I am talking about lives in a different country.. and it took me 3 flights to get to him, i travelled alone, spent all my money and this is how it ends...
I seriously just wanna die right now.. put a guy in my head and die..
although it hurts now, this man (boy!) is actually doing you a big favor by exiting your life early on into the relationship, so you don't waste years of your life on him.
right now you sound like you are heartbroken and lonely. i've been there. many of us have. but try to remember it's just... RIGHT NOW.
25 is not old at all, so don't worry! life is strange. in fact, by this time next year, it's possible you could be happily married to someone else and even pregnant!
in the meantime, your 20s are the perfect time to put all your focus on building up a fabulous career and meeting new girlfriends through work, church, or volunteering :)
It's actually very common for someone to just bail like that once the relationship really gets going, I guess it's just too much for them.
I don't like the feeling that people put you in this situation and made a relationship seem so important. It shouldn't be about peer pressure.
I hope you don't die, we haven't talked in a long time.
You have my support.
Truth is I'm really destroyed...
Hang in there, no one is really worth dying over, no one.
Just be confident that you are a good person, that you didn't do anything wrong, that you are attractive, that you having a loving and respectful family. That guy was no good for you, as much as you love him, he is worthless. Sometimes we fall for the wrong person, it happens.