Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
it is time for me 2 give up hope for my marriage and put that hope in something else. i must give up the dream and embrace reality. my hope is in my thriving in God's blessings for my life with my new family...me and my 3 children.
ive spent most of the month longing and hoping that my husband will turn around and realize how great i am. that he will recommit 2 me and stop straying and stop being distant. then i spend a wk or so hurting and angry b/c i feel i am being unfairly unloved. i pout and i cry and i ask for answers and get none. and i hurt and i throw things and i feel shattered and broken and i want the part that hurts 2 die.
i think my period and premenstal ruins my balance.
my husband has bn having an affair since nov 2006. i found out december of 2008. hes since lied about it being over many times and continues 2 c her. now he doesnt lie but he still has a relationship with her. he contends that its somehow not so bad b/c its no longer physical or so he says. hes lied so much who can really know.
so its not fair but staying means i accept. i do not accept it. so i must go. my mother doesnt think i shd b/c of my lack of finances. i will trust in the Lord that He will be make a way 4 me 2 b able 2 have peace all month not just 3 wks. i nd 2 make a statement with my life that i do not accept this. even if it means taking our children and moving out of our home. my husband will not move out.
its not fair but i dont have 2 give up hope. i just have 2 have hope in something or someone else. no more hope in marriage. its time 2 move on. the blessing is that God travels with me no matter what. I can kp hope in that. i have no more hope that my marriage can b saved. im done. amen.
ive spent most of the month longing and hoping that my husband will turn around and realize how great i am. that he will recommit 2 me and stop straying and stop being distant. then i spend a wk or so hurting and angry b/c i feel i am being unfairly unloved. i pout and i cry and i ask for answers and get none. and i hurt and i throw things and i feel shattered and broken and i want the part that hurts 2 die.
i think my period and premenstal ruins my balance.
my husband has bn having an affair since nov 2006. i found out december of 2008. hes since lied about it being over many times and continues 2 c her. now he doesnt lie but he still has a relationship with her. he contends that its somehow not so bad b/c its no longer physical or so he says. hes lied so much who can really know.
so its not fair but staying means i accept. i do not accept it. so i must go. my mother doesnt think i shd b/c of my lack of finances. i will trust in the Lord that He will be make a way 4 me 2 b able 2 have peace all month not just 3 wks. i nd 2 make a statement with my life that i do not accept this. even if it means taking our children and moving out of our home. my husband will not move out.
its not fair but i dont have 2 give up hope. i just have 2 have hope in something or someone else. no more hope in marriage. its time 2 move on. the blessing is that God travels with me no matter what. I can kp hope in that. i have no more hope that my marriage can b saved. im done. amen.
you seem to have the right attitude about everything.. staying true to yourself and your kids. you're right you need to put hope and effort into something that will make you happy.. not something that will continue to bring you down. you and your children deserve happiness and stability.
is there family that can help you with a place to stay, or maybe lend you some money to get out on your own?
my only concern for you, is the money. i really hope everything works out for you!
good luck.