Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
What are 3 things that you want to accomplish for yourself now that you are divorced/separated? May include family ideals, too. Feel free to discuss.
Cleaned up my debt (& his too, it was joint), got on a savings plan for my future
patched, spackled, painted whole house, ceilings too by myself
put in new laminate floor by myself
My immediate plans...
A. Find someone I lost, she was funny, compassionate and outgoing, I won't let his bullshit kill her! and after 23 years take care of her 1st.
B.Save more money!!!
C.Go back to college!!!
D. Challenge Faren. to RULE THE UNIVERSE!!! AND ROCK IT TOO!!
thats amazing
Be more organized.
Learn how to relax.
Join the underground.
finish some sort of degree while working and raising 3 kids.
buy a different house that does not remind me of him, in any way.
Plastic surgery
Get the novel published; my best work, which ironically is about a lousy, cheating husband.
Use money from said novel to travel to Europe and Hawaii.
Replace husband with new man, that can be trusted.
(I think that covers it). Lol. That was fun, LLMT. :)
2. Start taking my writing seriously, so I can hopefully make a career out of it.
3. Become a foster mother.
2.) Be content with being alone
3.) Figure out who the hell I am
2. Make sure my middle child is doing well in his college
3. Remodel my bathroom into a Tuscan design
awesome
1) stabilize myself financially
2) quit smoking (I guess that plays into #1 at $6.00 a pack :)
3) move
intermediate term - within 5 years
1) freedom from my demons (should be short term, but I'm being realistic)
2) career change... current job can be my part time job
3) get back into competition-ready shape
long term
1) buy a home
2) find true love (for the first time lol)
3) start to check off the things on my bucket list
Get a bike..
find myself
find a friend, not necessarily with benefits - who would get to know me for me and not cause me any frustrations when trying to have a conversation and listen to me when I talk, just as I would listen to them.
Said person should like gardening. house repair / renovations, animals, art, antiques, take adventurous rides, be capable of cleaning the house if needed and not be afraid of the sound of the vacuum, cook for me once in awhile, be involved in making decisions whether it be what we should make for dinner to what project we should work on next and how will we achieve it.
Must like to read and know what's happening in the world. Must not be prejudice and must not show me their grumpy side all the time. Must also be understanding of the pain I am in and realize that I tire easily because of all my botched surgeries
Well I think I just wrote and ad instead of things I want to accomplish...
I'm accepting resumes - just PM them to me.....