Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I woke up motivated for some reason this morning... I took a showever and headed to the local discount haircut chain to get my mop chopped (overdue on that one). On the way there I got a text from a cousin who wanted to know if I wanted to head out on Lake Erie in his new boat for some fishing with he and his wife, so after I finished my haircut and errands I ran out to Vermilion Municiple Dock and disembarked.
We spent the entire day fishing and BS'ing, mostly about stuff other than my shitty life, caught a few fish (mostly ones we didn't want), and I probably got sunburned despite copious amounts of sunblock on my face and neck. I'll take a sunburn over non-stop anxiety attacks any day though. We stayed out about 8 hours, and man was it nice just to be in a place where I could relax, enjoy the great weather, and talk with friends.
Normally I would come home and tell my wife all about what a great day I had, but she isn't there anymore, so I thought I would share with the DS crew.
We spent the entire day fishing and BS'ing, mostly about stuff other than my shitty life, caught a few fish (mostly ones we didn't want), and I probably got sunburned despite copious amounts of sunblock on my face and neck. I'll take a sunburn over non-stop anxiety attacks any day though. We stayed out about 8 hours, and man was it nice just to be in a place where I could relax, enjoy the great weather, and talk with friends.
Normally I would come home and tell my wife all about what a great day I had, but she isn't there anymore, so I thought I would share with the DS crew.
I'm yet to have a day where I don't break down into tears, but I know those days are out there, and your nice little story reaffirms that for me, so even when you think you are just expressing how nice it was to have a good day, you can also be helping someone at the same time. The glory of human communication, I suppose.
Blessed Be!
I'm glad that my sharing has been able to help others.
I know we all probably have anxiety issues to some degree, but it really sounds like it would be beneficial for you.
These drugs work wonders for anxiety, bt are also fairly addictive, and once physical dependence reers it's nasty little head, you have to be mindful to ween yourself off of them very slowly once you decide you nop longer need them.
I am not a medical professional, but I do have some experience with this. Might be something to consider.