Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
after days of uncertainty this morning he texts me and says he is having a bad time at the moment he needs time to sort himself out so he wont bother me anymore. But if im still interested when hes straight then ok if not he understands.then said he is being honest with me and he will contact me when hes sorted if i want then put loads of kisses.
Now maybe im wrong but if you are going through a bad time in life surely you need the people that meen the most to you.
Two days ago he was still telling me he loved me and missed me etc etc.
Now maybe im wrong but if you are going through a bad time in life surely you need the people that meen the most to you.
Two days ago he was still telling me he loved me and missed me etc etc.
When i think to start with how guarded i was and he kept on saying he would never hurt me and 2 days before he dumped me he was looking at cars so we could go do things together with his kids and he was talking about the future together im getting angry now and im starting to feel used.I dont think he did it intentionally but perhaps i helped him through a lonely time.
Im not the sort of person to hate him for what hes done and still think hes an amazingly caring sweet man but i just wish i hadnt got caught up in his issues.
I was painfully confused for almost a year now about my ex, though I chose the best way: walk away, no contact... but sometimes I wondered whether I was wrong. Now I know that I did the right thing.
After I broke up with my ex, he was quite for 2 months. During that time, I knew that he was sleeping with the girl he once cheated on me with. Then slowly, nicely and sweetly contacted me again. He didn't make it clear, but it seemed like he wanted me back one more time. But I had had enough. I was so cold and indifferent. So he disappeared again.
End of April, I heard that girl had moved in to live with him. Now they're living together. It was like killing me one more time. I questioned myself again and again: What if I took him back one more time?
Now I know: I did the right thing not to take him back.
Thank you all.
(((Hugs)))