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here is the email thread re: stuff at his house.
me, 3/7 Please let me know when I can come pick up my stuff. I prefer you not be there, if you could leave it somewhereFrom this point out, I absolutely do not want any further contact with you
him, 3/17 R u in the area?
me, 3/17 No, I am not.
him, 3/17 Ok
me, 3/17 I spoke with Cindy, to make things easier you can drop my stuff by her house on Bradlee. Maybe one day this week when you drop Tyler off
him, 3/17 Ok
me, 3/17 Thanks, I think the only things left are, my leather head rests to my third row, Open House Signs, car matts and pajamas
him, 3/17, I forgot about those things do really want the signs now?If u want I can bring them to Cindy but they r heavy! U have a spare car key,PJ`s,headrest,a winter coat,your step stool ,a pair of gloves,an i think thats it.Did u block my phone number?I tried texting u ?????????????????????
me, 3/18, Whatever is easier for you, if you want to drop stuff off now and signs later, that would be fine. Step stool? winter coat you can donate. Yes, I did block you.
me, 4/2 Just wondering when you can drop my things off at Cindy's? She is going on vacation on 4/10 so, anytime between now and then if you can.
him, 4/2 I will drop it on thursday
me, 4/2 ok thanks, I will let her know, around what time
him, 4/2 Between 8 - 8:30pm
me, 4/2 great, someone should be there
him, 4/2 you want ur signs too?
me, 4/2 yes, please
him, 4/2 ok
me, 3/7 Please let me know when I can come pick up my stuff. I prefer you not be there, if you could leave it somewhereFrom this point out, I absolutely do not want any further contact with you
him, 3/17 R u in the area?
me, 3/17 No, I am not.
him, 3/17 Ok
me, 3/17 I spoke with Cindy, to make things easier you can drop my stuff by her house on Bradlee. Maybe one day this week when you drop Tyler off
him, 3/17 Ok
me, 3/17 Thanks, I think the only things left are, my leather head rests to my third row, Open House Signs, car matts and pajamas
him, 3/17, I forgot about those things do really want the signs now?If u want I can bring them to Cindy but they r heavy! U have a spare car key,PJ`s,headrest,a winter coat,your step stool ,a pair of gloves,an i think thats it.Did u block my phone number?I tried texting u ?????????????????????
me, 3/18, Whatever is easier for you, if you want to drop stuff off now and signs later, that would be fine. Step stool? winter coat you can donate. Yes, I did block you.
me, 4/2 Just wondering when you can drop my things off at Cindy's? She is going on vacation on 4/10 so, anytime between now and then if you can.
him, 4/2 I will drop it on thursday
me, 4/2 ok thanks, I will let her know, around what time
him, 4/2 Between 8 - 8:30pm
me, 4/2 great, someone should be there
him, 4/2 you want ur signs too?
me, 4/2 yes, please
him, 4/2 ok
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/15996316-he-said-she-said-he
WTF...... I said I was at a training Today... I do not want to see him..
So, take the bull by the balls, eat the 30 minutes, and go get your stuff. Take a friend, take 12. Just don't be alone with him, as he's probably going to talk some kinda bullshit to get you back in bed errr something.
I lost a whole household/20 years of things. I also tried to get things back, but he won't cooperate. I finally just said forget it. I will eventually replace them. Don't want to have to deal with him anymore.
Time to move on with your life. You're more important that things!
Don't agree to meet over coffee or anything like that. Just a quick handoff. If you show up and he wants to talk and not give the car stuff to you yet, don't do it as it's more game playing and you're probably going to have to face that you're never going to get it and just have to leave it and move on.