Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Here is a little background on my journey..
http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal
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When all you of you guys told me that this was an emotional roller coaster, you guys were not kidding!
I feel I am worse than before...how is that possible? I go to sleep at 3 or 4 am, wake up at 3 pm (on the days I have off of course). My mind wonders like crazy, i am crying more than usual, especially when I come home and turn on the lights and its an empty home.
I am in so much pain, I am so hurt that my marriage fell apart. I am just blaming myself for everything, "what if i did this..., what if i was more like this...". I start to question 'what is wrong with me?' My husband left me after two years of marriage. The day he left he never looked back, never had the desire to see me again, talk to me...nothing. Every time I would ask him just to talk he would say he doesn't owe me anything (after an overall of 6 years together). That there is nothing left to say.
It makes me wonder, like WOW he never loved me, am i not special? Did I really mean nothing to him? Whoever he is with must be really worth it for him. I know that this man completely destroyed my confidence and it is up to me to repair it but it really does make me feel like I am not worth anything.
I try to imagine he isn't with anyone else, but i know that is me just being naive. What do i do? How do I find peace? I have maintained no contact, or no looking him up on Facebook, or anything like that for a month, no texting, NOTHING...but it seems like it has only made it worse, I can only imagine him sleeping with other people, doing this and that and I feel that it kills me.
I know i have spoken to some of you about this but as some of you know, I am 25. That kills me...I will be 25 and divorced. I am afraid that this will prevent me from ever being happy again...because i feel like i will be judged about being only 25 and divorced. I think this is where i am struggling with the most. I know it should not be on my priority list but i want to be a mother one day, a wife...but I afraid it will never happen to me again..
Thank you to all of you who take the time to read these random rants I have, coming here and seeing your replies is honestly what gets me through the day sometimes.
http://www.dailystrength.org/people/3039556/journal
______________________________________________________
When all you of you guys told me that this was an emotional roller coaster, you guys were not kidding!
I feel I am worse than before...how is that possible? I go to sleep at 3 or 4 am, wake up at 3 pm (on the days I have off of course). My mind wonders like crazy, i am crying more than usual, especially when I come home and turn on the lights and its an empty home.
I am in so much pain, I am so hurt that my marriage fell apart. I am just blaming myself for everything, "what if i did this..., what if i was more like this...". I start to question 'what is wrong with me?' My husband left me after two years of marriage. The day he left he never looked back, never had the desire to see me again, talk to me...nothing. Every time I would ask him just to talk he would say he doesn't owe me anything (after an overall of 6 years together). That there is nothing left to say.
It makes me wonder, like WOW he never loved me, am i not special? Did I really mean nothing to him? Whoever he is with must be really worth it for him. I know that this man completely destroyed my confidence and it is up to me to repair it but it really does make me feel like I am not worth anything.
I try to imagine he isn't with anyone else, but i know that is me just being naive. What do i do? How do I find peace? I have maintained no contact, or no looking him up on Facebook, or anything like that for a month, no texting, NOTHING...but it seems like it has only made it worse, I can only imagine him sleeping with other people, doing this and that and I feel that it kills me.
I know i have spoken to some of you about this but as some of you know, I am 25. That kills me...I will be 25 and divorced. I am afraid that this will prevent me from ever being happy again...because i feel like i will be judged about being only 25 and divorced. I think this is where i am struggling with the most. I know it should not be on my priority list but i want to be a mother one day, a wife...but I afraid it will never happen to me again..
Thank you to all of you who take the time to read these random rants I have, coming here and seeing your replies is honestly what gets me through the day sometimes.
Lots of love for you Jgard! Please dont give up on yourself, you wll find love again when you're ready, when you realize that you dont need someone to be happy. Then you will look back at these days, maybe re-read these posts and laugh :)