I feel like I am trapped. I have been in a terrible 14-year marriage.I have two kids, a teenage son with autism and a 9 year old daughter. My kids do not get along with my husband at all and they disrespect him.We have tried going to therapy many times throughout the year but my husband only goes to basically get me to get off his back, but he doesn't consistently in his heart follow through. It has gotten so bad that my son has called 911 telling them that his dad is "bugging us," and he has emailed his teacher saying that his dad is mean to him. My son has even said he wanted to kill himself and that he wishes his dad were dead.  I have no money and have been a stay at home mom to take care of my kids, with special attention given to my son with autism. My husband has a good paying job and if I save my money to divorce him, I will be left having to move since the area we live in is too expensive for me to afford. My husband will get the house since he got it through his inheritance money. On top of it, I have my elderly parents (and I am their only daughter) and only one they have to take care of them. It seems like every idea that I have leads me to a dead end. I don't have any money, friends or family who could help. On top of that, I think my husband himself has Asperger's. I feel so trapped.  Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.