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feeling alone

hannahv
hannahv

Recently, a guy I'd been seeing and really felt connected with literally blocked me on all social media and doesn't want to talk to me for a month because I opened up to him about my depression and past suicidal thoughts. I don't know what to do without him. He says he doesn't know how he feels about me anymore and doesn't know if he wants a relationship with me, even though he said he loved me and wanted me forever. I don't know what to do... I feel so alone

mindfulalacrity
mindfulalacrity
I'm guessing you scared him and he clearly doesn't know how to deal with it and maybe doesn't want to deal with it. Perhaps you need to back off on your stated feelings for him and instead get back to your where you started as friends. It is there that the two of you can see if the friendship can support the challenges you both bring to a relationshp.
hannahv
hannahv
I think what hurts the most is that he blocked me off all social media, and I feel like he abandoned me. I feel like i have no one else to turn to to talk about my feelings with anymore
crybaby3
crybaby3
Honestly if he doesn't love you anymore because of the way your brain is wired then forget him. He doesn't deserve someone like you. Just keep reminding yourself that you are strong & you love yourself even though some don't. I love you and you are never ever alone.
Lauradlou
Lauradlou
I am really sorry about your situation. I would suggest moving forward with your life and if he decides to come back into the picture then you can address it then. Best of luck. I will be praying for you!
mlr0853
mlr0853
you did right by being honest, no relationship can survive dishonesty. unfortunately, some men/women will not or do not take the time to understand. Staying stuck on this guy will only add to your sadness, try to pack up your emotions and move on. Clearly he is Needing and making the choice to stomp out his confusion/fear of a relationship with you by running away...this is something many of us have to deal with...someone will come along at some point who does understand and 'chooses to stay'...your mental health is important and needs to be understood...don't throw away your control by giving him space in your head! Best to you!
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