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Maybe someone already asked this question but what are some of your favorite inspirational books? anything that has helped you get through some of the hard days?
Her affair, the affair partner, the threaded if the affair through one of the youth organizations in which one of my kids belongs and wife and her mr wonderful are committee members
Shows the denial of humanity, shows the true evilness of such and the absurdness
Think concentration camp, a private guard - not a Nazi part member, not a "believer", how does a normal person be that guard and not go crazy? What is rational compelling mechanism
- shot the commander and open the gates
- shot the prisoners to put them out of their misery
- shot themselves at the horror and inability to save anyone
- see the prisoners as inhuman
I think those that cheat choose to see the person they betray as nonhuman , this then removes empathy , no empathy itemizes shame
The difference between me and a ww11 concentration camp prisoner, I loved the german guard that saw me as inhuman
For a period of time I felt that deserved it I'm some way since I loved her
I understated that many will read this and say. "Get over it", and how dare you Relate it to something so monstrous as the holocaust
---- I was with my wife for 26 years, I think is normal to get a part of your identity from a person that you love and with whom you have lived the majority of your life with, at some point in time she cheated, she came home, kissed the kids got night, have a cuddle --- maybe the whole slap and tickle, she woke up the next day and said to herself ....I can do this and did for 9 months
When I stumbled onto the affair, her complete lack of remorse, to me she became the german guard that choose to see me as inhuman
She was my world and a large path of the mirror in which I view myself
Sone people survived the horrors of those camps, some of them lived their lives with at least the flavor of joy
I hope to taste joy more and more
My kids were young when her affair started, at least one of the kids knew things were inappropriate long before I did ,
What a heavy burden to put on a child?
What kind of person can deceive themselves into thinking that thier innocent child won't know AND refused then as now to consider the possibility that a child , our child, has been keeping her secret
The holocaust showed mans inhumanity to man at the macro - micro levels, it also showed triumph over such from heroes, normal people, and by the marginalized and discarded
My worth does not come for how my cheating wife sees me, or from what her circle publicly projects,
My worth comes from being able to see God in poor misguided souls like that of my wife
My worth comes from making choices everyday thAt are just and gentle
The books from holocaust survivors helped me a lot