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I'm so sorry for your pain!

Some days you just have to fake it, tell you make it!

Hang in there-life is full of lessons and blessings!

Sending all that hurting peace love and support!

Well I know the feeling. I have at least 10 direct reports and 100 indirect reports and the hardest thing to do is to put on a good face when your life is falling apart. I have been off for 2 days and I am dreading going to work and facing them. It's so hard to play upbeat when your stomach is turning and you feel sick.

I feel exactly the same. I've lost track of how many days I've been feeling like this now. I have so many deadlines to meet, a job interview but zero energy to face all this. And I feel that if I fail I will just go more down and down. And all he does is pushing me further down instead of supporting me as he promised. It's so hard to realise that we are alone facing our own darkness.

You guys aren't the only ones having a bad day... I'm just a step away from cashing it in the way I feel now. I'm tired of the constant bullshit from STBX and her mom.. I don't need this crap..

Well my STBX told be Sept 1, I moved out Oct.1, I never told anyone at work (except one person) until around mid January. I worked everyday, and in the beginning I found work to be the only distraction from dealing with my hurt. At the end of the day I would walk to my car and somedays cry for a few minutes, or on the drive home. Then one day it seemed fewer and farther between these outbursts. Then they stopped. Don't get me wrong I cried plenty other times... but as far as work, try try try to use it as an escape. I did find a source online for dealing with those thoughts that make you cry...www.nakeddivorce.com PLEASE have a look at her videos..

Sometimes, it's necessary to fake it til you make it.

It's part of the process, but also part of reflecting on, and being true, to yourself, your feelings, and your emotions.

Hang in there!