Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Do you think that it would be a bad thing for a couple to stay together and "fake it" for the kids sake? What if a couople just decided that they would pretend to be happily married, just so the children could live with both their parents. There could always be that possibility of the couple working things out in the future, right? And if not, then at least the kids could would avoid the mess of divorce. Any thoughts?
The idea that, because there are problems in a relationship that its understandable to have an affair is just pure BS.
The kids would learn more, the parents would learn more if we could all face the facts that its hard to make a marrage work and it takes a lot of work,understanding, talking, caring and responsiblities to get along with each other. If we could see that we need to take responsiblities for our own contributions to the problems there is a chance that it could work out.
I think it is just crazy to thing that some other man/woman are going to bring you that happiness that we are all looking for, when in fact we had it in our own marrage some time ago. If that did not work why would this new fuck head be any better at it.
I do not understand how people can just give up if ther seems to be some willingness to learn from the past.
Except that it might seem a lot easier let the family go to hell and start a new fun relationship with out any of the old cares.
But only a damn fool would think that would work.