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I am just a little curious to know if any of our members out there ever had to deal with the Facebook and your "ex" issue, after a break up?
My ex-fiance is still currently on my friends list on Facebook, I had planned to remove her several nights ago, but on that night we had one final talk over the phone. We agree'd for "no contact" by way of phone or text, but when the matter of what we're going to do about Facebook, she was quick to say "that's okay, keep me on it, that way if something comes up in regards to the cat's, we can talk about it that way, through private messenger"!
I know most would say that it's ridiculous to keep an "ex" around on Facebook, just for the sole purpose as so that if ever needed we can talk about the cat's, or as she likes to call them, Mommy's little girls! Seeing that we agree'd to no verbal contact, and no phone text's, there's really no way for me to convey to her how I'm feeling about keeping her on my Facebook.
I know it's probably best just to go in there and click the "unfriend" button and be done with it. But if I do this, would this be one last example to this person of how terrible I am, and that I'm a liar and don't keep my agreements. Or should I just do it, regardless of the judgments and just move on?
My ex-fiance is still currently on my friends list on Facebook, I had planned to remove her several nights ago, but on that night we had one final talk over the phone. We agree'd for "no contact" by way of phone or text, but when the matter of what we're going to do about Facebook, she was quick to say "that's okay, keep me on it, that way if something comes up in regards to the cat's, we can talk about it that way, through private messenger"!
I know most would say that it's ridiculous to keep an "ex" around on Facebook, just for the sole purpose as so that if ever needed we can talk about the cat's, or as she likes to call them, Mommy's little girls! Seeing that we agree'd to no verbal contact, and no phone text's, there's really no way for me to convey to her how I'm feeling about keeping her on my Facebook.
I know it's probably best just to go in there and click the "unfriend" button and be done with it. But if I do this, would this be one last example to this person of how terrible I am, and that I'm a liar and don't keep my agreements. Or should I just do it, regardless of the judgments and just move on?
if she needs to contact you, she can do it some other way. also, do we really care what they think about us anymore?
---------I just noticed you have unfriended her, that is a good and healthy move on your part.