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At the Soccer game today..
First time that we have really been around each other. She walked up to me and told me that I need to "deal with my issues because she isn't going anywhere"..amongst other things.
She had the nerve to tell me that I don't need to judge her because she is "sure" that I have had more sexual partners than she has. HAD to respond to that and let her know that, even if that is the case, NONE of them were MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE!!
Other than that..I didn't react... not going to let my kids see me act the way that I wanted to.
They walked aroung the Soccer fields together.. holding hands and kissing. The other soccer Mom's were as grossed out as I was.
The fact that my kids now have to spend a portion of thier lives around this woman bothers me greatly.
I tried..and failed..not to let it get to me. She is one of those women that commits adultry and is PROUD of herself. Like she won something. She wanted him, she got him, and she is happy with herself.
I am sure that there are lots of people on this site who have had similar experiences. It's not fun. I do know that she, and my ex, have not won anything but a life with partner that they will never fully be able to trust.
Now I just need to think of something to do with all of the energy that I didn't use drop-kicking her ass at the soccer field.
Any suggestions??
First time that we have really been around each other. She walked up to me and told me that I need to "deal with my issues because she isn't going anywhere"..amongst other things.
She had the nerve to tell me that I don't need to judge her because she is "sure" that I have had more sexual partners than she has. HAD to respond to that and let her know that, even if that is the case, NONE of them were MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE!!
Other than that..I didn't react... not going to let my kids see me act the way that I wanted to.
They walked aroung the Soccer fields together.. holding hands and kissing. The other soccer Mom's were as grossed out as I was.
The fact that my kids now have to spend a portion of thier lives around this woman bothers me greatly.
I tried..and failed..not to let it get to me. She is one of those women that commits adultry and is PROUD of herself. Like she won something. She wanted him, she got him, and she is happy with herself.
I am sure that there are lots of people on this site who have had similar experiences. It's not fun. I do know that she, and my ex, have not won anything but a life with partner that they will never fully be able to trust.
Now I just need to think of something to do with all of the energy that I didn't use drop-kicking her ass at the soccer field.
Any suggestions??
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If the ow in my situation had made a commment like that to me, she would've been on the ground waiting for an ambulance.
I am lucky my son's are both in their 20's and they would not be bothered by my actions (I'd get a "great right hook mom").
Vacuum or scrub something, that usually gets my unused mad energy going.
Okay, he left, and is with her, whatever. But, I"d smile and say "Hi Whore....you should stay the hell away from me because I'm going to have to kick your ass, just because I can...."
Kids around or not, I will have my say.
If all fails then. Speak to BOB about what it has in mind.
Anyway, everyday I look great and have a calm smile on my face. EVEN IF IT KILLS ME. She will never see my sweat. And at the soccer game I ignore her on the outside but inside I am kicking her ass.
She can have him because he's a catch on the outside...its his ADHA not paying the bills acting like a child with a controling mother side I wont miss at all! Hes all yours baby!
When I'm that upset, I do some heavy duty house cleaning.
If you want, I'll go kick her ass for you...that way your children won't be embarrassed. ;)
((((hugs))))
You handled it better than I would have. HUGS to you.