Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I finally divorced my wife or x-wife rather. She is going a little psycho. I think life is too short and I need to explore other women but she doesn't get it. She only wants to be with me. I told her that I'm not getting any younger and I need to have several women in my life and need an open relationship. Getting married was a mistake.
I'm only 25, handsome, rich and my acting career is going really well. With her around, I can't go party with the producers and have sex with the women they bring over because she's in the car waiting.
It's like telling a kid he can't have a lolly pop.
I told her she's welcome to come over any time but she's psycho. She says I'm in it for myself.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about? so, you got married and it was a mistake and you want out.... no big deal right? anyway, so what should I do? I'm thinking nothing, cuz I should let the psycho women figure it out right?
She says she has no siblings, no parents blah blah, no family and nothing and what part of that is my problem?
I'm only 25, handsome, rich and my acting career is going really well. With her around, I can't go party with the producers and have sex with the women they bring over because she's in the car waiting.
It's like telling a kid he can't have a lolly pop.
I told her she's welcome to come over any time but she's psycho. She says I'm in it for myself.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about? so, you got married and it was a mistake and you want out.... no big deal right? anyway, so what should I do? I'm thinking nothing, cuz I should let the psycho women figure it out right?
She says she has no siblings, no parents blah blah, no family and nothing and what part of that is my problem?
Like I said. Life is a huge mess right now and no I don't work for restaurants and yes, I'm only doing independent films right now. I'm still waiting for that big break.
I do part time at a nice bar for some supplemental income but I don't consider that a restaurant and its all to pay the alimony I owe. Hey, at least I'm not a dead beat x husband.
Ok, in my post I was pissed and kind of just wrote it. I admit marriage was not what I thought and I just want to be single.
Those you are well off normally do not discuss their finincial situation, especially with strangers
2. If you are truly handsome than again, telling people that is a real turn off and makes people believe that you are in fact, a toad.
3. You are treating your wife like crap so if she is doing the same to you, oh well
4. a real man does not treat anyone like this, especailly his wife.
5. Grow up
I don't think this is Paul.. If it is, hi..
pornos?
okay so maybe we aren't being "helpful" but read your initial post and tell us that if you read that post by someone else your "douchbag" radar wouldn't be going off...you sounds like a total ass.
I need ot be with other women, she doesn't get that... I'm handsome and rich, I'm an actor and can't party, do blow like it 1983 and bang chicks because my stupid killjoy wife is sitting in the car, "oh poor baby, her whole family is dead" WAAA!
what kind of response did you expect after that?
I agree that he reads like a troll. I really hope, for his sake, that he's a troll. Cos if he is, that just makes him a sad and lonely idiot. If he's for real, it makes him a WHOLE lot worse.
unfortunately, or maybe unfortunately, No, I don't know how it goes.
I guess since you want to be single, you did the right thing by divorcing her. While for you her to still be "trying to work it out" is a pain in the ass, annoying, and interfering with the life you want, she seems to still be struggling with the fact that someone who promised a commitment, a partnership and a life together has left her behind to fend for herself. Sure, its not easy for you to be on two different meds that counteract themselves, but you are now walking the life you wanted while she is mending and trying to leave behind the life she thought she had.
Give her a break, continue to let her know it won't work cus of YOUR desires and wants, not that she is the one who is causing the relationship to be over, and give her a break like you are asking others to give you.
Good luck on striking it rich and moving from "independent" to being famous and getting out of the bartender life. It is hard for someone to "break in" to movies, so I am sure it is hard for you too, especially when you priorities right now are mingling/ass kissing producers, hooking up and partying. If that strategy doesn't work, maybe you can take a page from a book from an actor/actress that didn't go that route and still was very successful even after they aren;t on the Big stage anymore (ie. Tom Hanks...)
Best of luck as you figure out how to straighten out your life.
"unfortunately, or maybe fortunately."
I'm just amazed. The insomnia group seems very different. Like I can relate. This group, it seems the opposite.
Anyway, my name isn't Paul. I think somewhere I read that I was not to reveal my real name and what's wrong with being born in Canada? I was born there but raised in America.
No, I'm not doing pornos. My question was what part of her problem was mine? And yes! She has latched on ever since I brought up separation and then she just won't let it go even after the divorce. Should I just file a restraining or stalking order. Is that what it's called?
Pimpin' ain't easy (Pimpin' ain't eeeeeee-zyyyyyy)