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Met this guy on a dating website come to find out he is married and an Elder of his church. He has been married for 25 years. Told me he wasn't looking for a fling or hook even though our texts seemed different.
When we met things happened now he is off the website and has blocked my calls. He has consumed me and I can't get him out of my of my head.
(((HUGS)))
He could be a church official, he could be a con man just let out of jail. Doesn't really matter though...he's a LIAR.
You seem hung up on two things, 1) if he found you attractive, and 2) that he was a church official.
Reality is....that you'll NEVER know if either are true. Because he's a LIAR.
(I'm atheist, I have no reason to defend a church. But it doesn't matter because he's a LIAR. Church official or not, guys that get blowjobs on first dates usually go back for seconds. The fact that he hasn't says a lot about HIS motivations in this....and it's NOT a real relationship or even someone to talk to.)
He's probably onto his next victim. Maybe he just wants random sex with no attachments. Maybe he's looking for someone with money that he can scam them out of.
Seriously...did you get that medical checkup yet?
Whatever he is...be very, very, very glad that he's gone.