Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Do you think it's normal to be anxious about going to a restaurant by yourself, sitting down and eating a whole rack of ribs? I've got to get used to doing stuff alone. How about a vacation by yourself? Would people look at me like I'm lame?
However I think the anxiety of being thought of as lame is only a projection of our own fears. Don't worry about what others might be thinking. Get out and do the things you want to do.
It's also possible these situations might present an opportunity to meet the next SO in your life. That is, if you are ready for it. So maybe think of it as an opportunity?
I went out to eat with a supportive friend, and I started looking around, I noticed several people eating alone, some reading the newspaper.
I never took notice of this before, but it makes me feel better about going out alone. Just because we're single we shouldn't hide in the house like a troll!