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DS Protest!! UN-BAN ROAD!!!!!!!!!!

HeaveToo
HeaveToo
This is so stupid. I can't believe that Road got banned. Seriously people, all of us have said some things that aren't nice or good at times and we haven't got banned. If you don't like what he says, ignore him! You don't have to open his posts!

The rest of us like having Road around and want him back on the boards. He provides valuable input at times, at other times he provides come comical relief. WE CAN'T TAKE OURSELVES SERIOUSLY ALL OF THE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!

Un-Ban Road!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU7XsoQXSW8
deleted_user
deleted_user
no lust here

unfortunately
the luster is broken

heh

I wonder if posting stuff to neutralize the anymosity might make things better, rather than name-calling and threats?

some kind of meeting in the middle

I strongly suspect, on a break-ups and divorce forum, there are plenty of people who are sensitive and raw and healing and at some point in their recovery, despite whether they need input, or humour. It seems a shame that instead, theyre finding each other unsafe and unfriendly.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wish I could talk like Road and get away with it. I barely say anything here anymore, like even hello, and people send me hate mail and want me hung at high fucking noon! Guess I just don't have Road's charm *sigh*.

New goal: to be able to be as crude and rude and offensive as Road and be able to have people love me for it and say it is just me being me!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Heavetoo, He's fine. I don't think he should have been banned over saying a derogatory comment about the female anatomy. I personally am indifferent to the word. If someone say something like that to me, i'm just letting it go on by because I wouldn't validate the comment. I could care less what someone on here calls me because they only are a person on the other side of a computer screen. Road, will be a ok! He needs a little breathing time anyway. I am sad though because he truly did help some people. Sure he can be foul mouth at times but that is just how he is and you have to love him in spite of it. It's gonna be a little quieter without him on here but maybe it'll give some people time to get past what they feel he has done wrong to them. I talked to him tonite and he's ok and will be fine in the end. So, If you care about the road don't be to down. It's not forever and anybody that knows him knows you can't keep him down. For Javier, you are a great guy, a smarty pants for sure but you have made a difference in my life and whether you come back on here or not. I know you'll be fine. I'm just glad you're still a part of my life whether it be on here or in the real world.