YES!! Break is 3 weeks old, however, everytime I go to sleep I wake up an hour later on average, and its because of a dream of her.
Its just so fustrating more than anything. Everytime.. then I cant get back to sleep.. so needless to say, I"M TIRED!

Yes. They suck. Its bad enough thinking of him awake, and now he's back in my dreams as well. It rotates too...sometimes its like a nightmare, or times its sweet and loving. I will say, some progress I have made lately is that he isn't always the first thing on my brain when I wake up though. I mean, on the nights when I don't dream of him. Yay for progress. I guess. / :

*other times

Urgh. So annoying.
And they will have no idea just how deeply we are affected

Nope, I rarely remember my dreams, and they typically don't involve ex husbands/boyfriends/flings, etc.

Yes, I feel your pain. Every time I think of my ex it feels like he nailed my heart with a dagger. He shared this site with me so it's hard to stay but I know others are here to listen and help too. I'm here if you need someone.

I've had one here and there. This week I had one where we were talking and he kept saying "we" are doing this, "we are going there". Everything was "WE" meaning THEM. Meaning him and #4....
I finally got so sick of it I started screaming at him to stop it. He was trying to get away from the scene I was creating and I kept following and hitting him telling him to stop doing that, did he have to rub it in my face, didnt he have any sensitivity at all, etc...

Right after that I had one where I guess he was getting another degree or something. Anyway, I went up to the college for something (I work there) and almost bumped in to one of his sisters who evidently had come to town for the graduation thing. I was hiding cause I didnt want her to see me and I didnt want to talk to her.

When we were dating, back in the dark ages, I had a dream about him and to this day it bugs me. We were standing by a stream or something. There was a small wooden box and I dont remember who was holding it. I could be wrong but I seem to recall that when we opened it, it was empty.
The next thing in the dream is him turning and walking away from me. I start calling his name louder and louder. Finally screaming his name. But he doesnt turn. He just keeps going-no reaction at all. I'm still yelling his name and I must have been doing it out loud cause I woke myself up.

I used to dream about the ex a lot during the divorce. But every time I did, he was so angry and upset. I noticed that it was always a couple of days before court dates or mediation. The last time was a humdinger. He was in a room, and he painted himself into a corner, no windows or door. The next day, I received an email from my lawyer saying he was willing to settle on my terms. So try to see what he is trying to say or how he looks. He could be trying to get you to give up and let him have all he wants. Maybe your dreams are trying to tell you that all will be alright and you will have nothing to worry about. (((((((Hugs))))))))

I find it so weird your mind can create these dreams.
More often than not there have been trains or railway stations involved. Sometimes he is leaving me again. Not talking to me. One time he made me go to a counselling session (?odd) one time I left him. And sometimes he wants me back.
It all sucks.

The train part is weirder though. I only ever started that after the breakup

Maybe your psyche telling you "train wreck."

Sorry for the bad dreams. They'll subside.

I have been reading right before I fall asleep the last 2 times, and it seems to be helping. The catch is, (and your gonna laugh) instead of more greif reading, I have been reading a James Patterson book, one of my favorite authors. However, its a book for Middle schoolers.

The idea is, its easy reading, no drama, or romantic themes. While I'm reading, I really focus on the story itself. Picturing in my mind even. Then, when I start to fall asleep, I turn off the light and really focus on what I just read. 2 days, no dreaming of the ex.

I'm like TTMI I don't usually remember my dreams and I 'm starting to appreciate it. Sorry you guys have these.....

I did a few weeks ago...
I dreamed that he approached me and in a moment of weakness we had sex. I woke up so pissed off at myself because I let him near me and use me after he has treated me so badly. I was so relieved when I realized it was just a dream.

Im going through the same thing after coming across an ex on a website, now its like im obsessed with her, every where i go and now almost every night im having dreams of her, all soft and romantic ones...

While I dont have any advice for you other than to say your not alone...