Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Lily61 12/09/2009

When deciding between staying in a bad marriage or getting a divorce, have you ever felt like you were choosing between Door #1 and Door #2? Behind Door #1 is a pit full of crocodiles. Behind Door #2 is cage full of hungry lions.

lycesq 12/09/2009

Lily - I chose the divorce and no regrets! Bring on the lions!

Lynne

meddle 12/09/2009

Road #3...zoom.... :D Extra good luck your way...

MsBlank1 12/09/2009

I chose door #3 and what a wonderful choice!!!!

deleted_user 12/09/2009

yes

Lily61 12/09/2009

Where is this fabled Door #3?

Is that the one with Monty Hall behind it?

FrankTheGreat 12/09/2009

It was a choice between two undesirable things, but at least elwith one of them a happy ending is possible.

deleted_user 12/09/2009

Door #2 has been a blessing in disquise. Just bring meat for the lions and distract them.

deleted_user 12/09/2009

It might seem that way. But, we have the ability to change the way we see things. Look really hard and you can see a rocky steep climb behind door #2, no lions but our own imagined ones. this is the path of healing and finding the true you. good luck.

Kon 12/09/2009

Good answer notyourmamalynn!!!
Always be prepared.
Yes some choices are the proverbial rock and a hard place, but standing still and not chosing is not going anywhere.
Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and move forward :)
Good Luck!

deleted_user 12/09/2009

Yep. Im looking at two paths, neither one looks to promising. however as time has passed door number two looks better then door number 1.

Lily61 12/09/2009

I have always been pretty good with cats.

Lauren9 12/09/2009

I'll take door #2 and gladly play with the cats.

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