Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
One of the best pieces of advice that I was given when I found out that I would be going through this divorce was to do something for yourself. At the time it didn't seem like that big of a thing but now I realize that it is somethat that you need to do.
I decided to get back into good shape and improve my appearance. I knew that it would be a long processes and it would take time, but that was a good thing.
This made me join a gym. I started to swim again and I started loosing weight. I am now down 35 pounds and I feel so much better. I am still working out because I want to drop some more weight and tone up some more. This gives me something positive to do with negative energy and it makes me work out that much harder because I think of her saying that I can't do it.
So what have you decided to do for yourself because of what we are going through?
I decided to get back into good shape and improve my appearance. I knew that it would be a long processes and it would take time, but that was a good thing.
This made me join a gym. I started to swim again and I started loosing weight. I am now down 35 pounds and I feel so much better. I am still working out because I want to drop some more weight and tone up some more. This gives me something positive to do with negative energy and it makes me work out that much harder because I think of her saying that I can't do it.
So what have you decided to do for yourself because of what we are going through?
I'm contemplating cutting my hair. I grew and kept it long because he liked it, but I'm tired of it now and need a change. And in a small way it's like a little "F you!" to him in my mind.
after I get myself back in shape, I'm taking myself shopping for new clothes. I'm not huge on retail therapy, but at that point, I'll certainly deserve it!
I'm sure there will be more to come on this front - because damnit - it's all about ME now! :-)
So I lost 26lbs, losing more... going to join a gym ( just have not had the funds for that right now ) and I purchased new cloths, New makeup, and other things.. I do my nails all the time now and I enjoy every minute of it now.
So doing something for yourself is a good thing to do. It makes you feel soooo much better!
Lynne