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My car tore up last week and after 5 days, he finally called to see how I was doing and how my car is. Granted I've only known him for a month, but after telling me how much he cares about me, I just don't think his money is where his mouth is. Do some guys just not like to be the knight in shining armour? I've never asked him for anything including any help with my car, just letting him know how my day went.
Lee
Lee
Ask yourself, "is it really important to me that he shows that he cares? "
If it is, and he is just not that kind of guy, you will have problems down the road as you will always expect him to show that he cares and he will be clueless and then you will be hurt and resentful.
I know this all too well from experience. Now I am dealing with someone who can't even ask me how I am doing 4 days after a chemo treatment. Looking back , all the signs were there, I chose to ignore them. He might care, I don't know, he doesn't even say now.
If you don't feel cared about for little things now, wait until the big things come along. Don't settle, you deserve to feel cared about.
I hope this helps.