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HeaveToo 11/01/2008

I was supposed to have a date tonight with a girl. Had one date with her already. She went out with her Mom this morning. When she got back she texted me and told me that she had a headache and she was going to rest for a while. That was a few hours ago. So my plans for tonight are done because it is getting later.

Did I just get stood up or what? I am not calling her again unless she contacts me now.

deleted_user 11/01/2008

We love ya, taking waiting list to date? How about margaritta? Wink wink, cutie!!!!!

HeaveToo 11/01/2008

Dating sucks. Way too much stuff to think of. I hate dealing with the unknown and varibles that can't be controlled or predicted. Damn free radicals! LOL.

deleted_user 11/01/2008

Yes, it does. Just sleep with your friends and blame the margaritta...lmao

HeaveToo 11/01/2008

Bad advice. I don't sleep with anyone these days.

deleted_user 11/01/2008

Yep,, looks that way... Sorry!
Technically, you were not stood up! She did text you to tell you she had a headache! (I thought that excuse was used for sex after about 10 years of marriage!;-)

BTW... have I ever told you that I hate texting?

HeaveToo 11/01/2008

Me too...but you have to adapt or die in this world and a lot of women love to text.

Darn you phone people...darn you. With your blackberries and abbreviations I can't understand it all. Darn you!

happywannab 11/01/2008

DOn't give up. I'm learning "He who cares the least wins!" It appears the more you act like you don't give a sh*t the more interested they are, male or female! Also, learn to expect nothing, then you don't get dissappointed but may be pleasantly suprised! I'd go out with you but I really don't care either way, LOL Keep fighting the good fight, her loss!

HeaveToo 11/01/2008

I go back to the other post...I just need a girl with far away eyes! LOL

deleted_user 11/01/2008

That stinks

deleted_user 11/01/2008

Come on, HeaveToo....there is always 2 possible outcomes from dating 1) it works 2) it doesn't. So, if you want to stick your neck out there for #1, be ready for #2 as well.

HeaveToo 11/01/2008

Back to my earlier posts...Life is all about #2 these days!

Shit happens
Someone steps in it
and it usually is me!

deleted_user 11/01/2008

I personally HATE texting to me its an absolute cop out in wanting not to show/hear emotions. But anyway back to the subject. Maybe after dealing with her mother all day shopping she really did have a headache and she just didn't want to be that way in front of you... I'm just saying MAYBE??? I haven't tried to start the dating thing don't even remember how and to be honest don't really care to right now. I think now I just need to learn how to be with just me. Once I find me tolerable maybe then others will too LOL

deleted_user 11/01/2008

I'd rather text than talk on the phone. Ask slpavman..

deleted_user 11/01/2008

Imagine how much crap is passing you by!!!! Come on, it is not all about you...what if they are seeing other people? What if they are not good people? Trust that it ALL works for the best. When things don't go my way, I pray to the guy up above to show me the way, take away the bad stuff, wehther I like the way it happens or not.

deleted_user 11/01/2008

You rock!!!
She sucks!!!
Stop complaining or I will stick one BOB in your mouth and one in your ass...lmao

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