Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Just found out my husband has been sex texting my sister in law for 5 months. I'm devastated
I saw a message pop up and thought it was about my son as we were on holiday I don't normally look at anything on his phone. I could not believe everything I read and saw. I confronted him and he swore that it was only texting after a drunken kiss after my sons 21st. I told him that i wanted him to tell her that I knew and he did by fb messaging which o could see without him knowing. I feel bad about doing that but I need be certain. It just said she knows about our texting.and wants a divorce. He really wants to make a go of it and is willing to come to counselling with me. He really is trying to make amends but I am struggling. I don't want to let my family know as we are a very close family and it will tear us all apart. My son and my nephews, my brother and my parents. I really don't know how I can carry on. He insists it was only texting and but I am so hurt as we have a fantastic marriage and can't understand why he would go this to me
You stay, that means you are Ok with this behavior, including letting him know he can do this to you. If you stay, you can't continue to complain about his behavior cus you made the choice to stay. Its then time to learn how to live with him and his behavior.
As some posters said and gave their best advice with your care in mind, its your call.
Wishing you clarity and strength to make the right decision for you.