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Desolation.....

Dracona
Dracona
today i feel utterly alone... deserted....
i dont want to be alone... i want someone to share the pregnancy with...
i want someone to hold me....
its late, im so tired, but i cant sleep cause of this feeling...
i know part of it is hormones making everything more intense... part of it is i went of anti depressants when i found out i was pregnat...
there are just so many things unsure in my life right now... i dont know where i will sleep tomarrow.
i just want to be SAFE.....
i know he doesnt care... and im done trying to make him understand....
but that doesnt stop my brain and heart from yelling why???
and it doesnt stop me from being angry....
how dare he.... how dare he ask me not to work and say he will pick up slack for a couple months... then when im so sick being pregnat i cant work he kicks me out??? i dont care what his reasons are.... what kind of man turns abusive and does this?? to his child and the mother??
sorry, just venting.... its really hard today... i really dont want to be alone
deleted_user
deleted_user
you're not alone.. I know its hard to believe now.. but you're going to be ok.. and you're going to have a beautiful boy/girl to look up at you with a toothless smile.. my nieces somehow always seems to make me feel better...

As far as what kind of man does this? The kind you shouldnt want to waste your time with... its all going to work out.. somehow it always does.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Really, you are blessed. You will have this wonderful human being in your life. I know it's hard and you'll have to draw more strength from within yourself than you've ever imagined that you would. And you won't have to waste any more time in your life on someone who doesn't appreciate how wonderful you are! You just focus on yourself and your baby. Look at him as a nonentity. There are several who are members whose partner left when they were pregnant...one was even pregnant at the same time as the OW and he left her for the ow. It's a very vulnerable time but you can get through it. Just be careful in your dealings with your ex. Sending strength and hugs your way...