Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I dated this guy for 5 months... We broke up. He always ignored me and I only ever got to see him in school at lunch. He's like a band geek and I was his first girlfriend. It's been just about 2 months we have been broken up. He's on my mind every second of the day. And every second something triggers me to think of him. I really love this kid but he said he doesn't love me;/ he broke up with me because I have to many family issues and I apparently always complain. He said hell be there for me as a friend which he hasn't but he doesn't want to be with me. I'm practically dieing without him. He won't even talk to me. Everytime I say something to him he says " Jess.... No just no" because he always assumes I want to beg for him back. I don't know why I'm hooked on him:/ all my past ex bfs have been abusive. He is extremely blunt, stubborn, and keeps everything to himself. I didn't even know that it bothered him. He always asked what was wrong. When he thinks he is right he drowns everyone else out:/ I really don't know what to say but it's to hard not talkin to him. I hide this from everyone because I don't want them to know how broken I am over him. I need to get him back:/
I'm sorry that you are having a difficult time at the moment.
You know you will be better off without this guy. You should find someone who want you and who loves you for YOU.
I know it's really REALLY REALLY hard right now. I'm going through a really difficult break-up right now too, but it will get better.
This is extremely easy to say, but hard to implement: You have to move on with your life. You don't need him, or anyone else. You need to rely on yourself and be happy with yourself. That should be your goal. Then, and only then will you be able to find true love.
I hope these words are comforting to you, and again, I'm sorry you are in pain.
Kind regards,
More2Life