Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
We know you as such a jokester, so when you are serious, and even say so, we're wondering are you really serious! So if you are, do tell what is really bothering you!
Ya got all of our hearts, and I'm sure we'll jump in as soon as you get a bit more specific. I just think of you as "mystery funny man".
The bad part is that, especially in the beginning, you gave some of the most direct and useful advice I have received on this forum.
I wish we could better know when you are serious and when you are giving us the gift of your overly clever humourous mind.
Good Luck with your Demons. They are wimps, you can lick em.
Or he's just trying to get into my pants.
*shrug*
I would personally love to see the real Rman... the person that brought you to DS.... I bet he really is a great guy and not so annoying!
What are these demons you are speaking of? Are they worries that you can seem to quiet? Or are they actually really memories that will not let you sleep? Get specific.... I bet you would get more support and care than most that post, if you would lay it all out there, like the rest of us have!
The demons in your mind are yours. You have created them, and accepted them and welcomed them.
The question is, do you control them or allow them to control you? It's YOUR head. You're driving the bus. Allow them space, as japy says, our personal demons prevent us from living a guiltless life, so they suit a purpose, but do not allow them to take control.
If that was you photo for you candidacy for president, you got my vote.
like I said
for me the only way to get rid of them 9and they are intimately attached to my guilt) is to burn them off by DOING, not TALKING.
Lynne
Just wondering??